Here Are the Sexiest, Most Blush-Inducing Movies Coming Out in 2019

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When porn is too much and you've watched all of the sexiest movies streaming on Netflix approximately a million times, you sometimes need to turn to—GASP—new movies. You know, the kind that are coming out in theaters and require leaving your house and putting on pants (which, yeah, sometimes seems counterintuitive when you're specifically yearning for a sexy movie to watch, but work with me here).

Tragically, we've seen all fifty shades of Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey's big screen sexcapades, but fear not—there are still plenty of sexy, sexy movies coming out in 2019 to get you all kinds of hot and bothered.

1'What Men Want'

Release date: February 8

Starring: Taraji P. Henson, Aldis Hodge, Wendi McLendon-Covey, Phoebe Robinson, and Tracy Morgan

What it's about: This update on the pretty problematic 2000 rom-com What Women Want is about a woman who gets the ability to hear men's thoughts.

Why it's sexy: That woman is played by Taraji P. Henson though and Taraji is never NOT sexy.

2'Miss Bala'

Release date: February 1

Starring: Gina Rodriguez and Ismael Cruz Córdova

What it's about: A young woman named Gloria goes to the police for help when her friend is kidnapped from a nightclub in Mexico, but finds herself in big trouble when a corrupt cop hands her over to the kidnappers, who want to use Gloria to move drugs and avoid detection by the Drug Enforcement Administration.

Why it's sexy: Gloria (played by Jane the Virgin star Gina Rodriguez) assumes a gritty, sexy new persona as she fights back against the cartel. 

3'The Aftermath'

Release date: March 15

Starring: Keira Knightley, Alexander Skarsgård, and Jason Clarke

What it's about: In this period film, set in 1946, a woman named Rachael Morgan travels to Hamburg to reunite with her British colonel husband, Lewis, who has been assigned to rebuild the city.

Why it's sexy: Doesn't sound sexy yet? Keep reading because Racheal and Lewis move in with a German widower and "passion" and "betrayal" follow. We all know what that means, right?

4'Five Feet Apart'

Release date: March 22

Starring: Haley Lu Richardson, Elena Satine, and Cole Sprouse

What it's about: Cole Sprouse getting his full, not-appropriate-for-The-CW sexiness on? Yes, please. This teen romance follows a girl named Stella who is hospitalized with cystic fibrosis and meets a life-changing fellow teen named Will with the same diagnosis.

Why it's sexy: They're immediately flirty, but required to maintain a "safe distance"—thus the movie's title. The more in love they fall, the more tempted they are to break the rules though, obviously. Is anything sexier than the romance that technically breaks the rules? Nope.

5'After'

Release date: April 12

Starring: Josephine Langford and Hero Fiennes-Tiffin

What it's about: Good girl goes to college, meets a mysterious, brooding guy who makes her question everything she thought she knew about herself and her life.

Why it's sexy: It's all about young love and sexy firsts and the stars are as hot as their chemistry.

6'The Sun Is Also a Star'

Release date: May 17

Starring: Yara Shahidi and Charles Melton

What it's about: A romantic and a staunch pragmatist meet and fall for each other during one magical day in New York City.

Why it's sexy: With stars like Yara and Charles, how could it not be? Plus, it promises to have the same butterfly-inducing love vibes as Before Sunrise.

7'Dark Phoenix'

Release date: June 7

Starring: Sophie Turner, James McAvoy, Michael Fassbender, Jennifer Lawrence, Nicholas Hoult, Tye Sheridan, Alexandra Shipp, Kodi Smit-McPhee, Evan Peters, and Jessica Chastain

What it's about: Jean Grey embraces her inner dark side and the X-Men scramble to keep the peace. 

Why it's sexy: Dark Phoenix isn't necessarily what you think of as a sexy movie, but watch the trailer and try not to lust over Sophie Turner just a little bit. 

8'Last Christmas'

Release date: November 8, 2019

Starring: Emilia Clarke and Henry Goulding

What it's about: Not much is known about the movie. The only synopsis floating around on the internet reads: "A young woman, who has been continuously unlucky, accepts a job as a department store elf during the holidays. When Kate meets Tom on the job, her life takes a turn." 

Why it's sexy: Emilia Clarke and Henry Goulding are both inherently sexy humans. Not a ton is known about the plot, so we can't say for sure what their sexiest moment will be, but these two in a rom-com has to be the hottest thing about November.

10 Signs It's Not a Date

1. He asked you to "hang out."
A "hangout" can totally potentially end in a hot make-out sesh (especially when tequila shots and karaoke are involved). But "hanging out" is not some secret male code word for date. Assume a hangout means he thinks of you as a potential friend and not a potential girlfriend.

2. He calls you dude.
It's a surefire sign he doesn't want to get into your pants. Because calling you dude is the equivalent of saying, "I don't think of you as a sexual person who has breasts."

3. He high-fives you at the end of the night.
Where is your gum? Should you have shaved your legs above the knee? HOW WILL YOU GET YOUR SPANX OFF WITHOUT HIM NOTICING??? None of that matters if he says good-bye with a high-five. The only thing worse is a handshake.

4. He tells you he just can't find the right person.
Sad but true story: I had a whirlwind evening with a gentleman we'll call Mark. At one point, things got real and Mark leaned over the candlelight to tell me he's had a hard time finding the right girl. The evening was so date-like (Witty banter! Winking!), I assumed this was his way of being coy about how much he liked me. Turns out Mark wanted me to set him up … with someone else. Lesson learned.

5. There are video games involved.
Yes, you and your neighbor share a deep love of Lara Croft, but if he invites you over to play Tomb Raider, it's not a date.

6. He doesn't even attempt to touch you during the movie.
One of the BEST PARTS of a movie date is what I affectionately refer to as, "the flirtatious touching armrest dance." If he invites you to a flick and then doesn't participate, i.e., he spends the next three hours in the dark leaning on the opposite armrest — it's not a date. Because no one is that shy. Or that respectful. No one.

7. He shows up to coffee wearing gym clothes.
You wore the jeans that make your butt look Beyoncé good. He's wearing track pants and a tank top because he's going to CrossFit post-coffee. Girl, no matter how many soy caramel lattes he buys you, it's not a date.

8. After dinner, he invites you back to his place and then sets up the couch for you to sleep on.
This one needs no explanation. In my experience (and, yes, this is a real thing that has really happened), the best thing to do is fake a sudden early morning obligation you totally forgot about and then Uber your bad self home.

9. You run into one of his friends and he invites them to join you.
Dates involve two people. #threesacrowd.

10. Your "first date" is a party.
You + that hot barista + 200 of his friends + the thud of Skrillex and several kegs a date. The upside? Maybe you can get that Ryan Gosling look-alike you met in line for the bathroom who's totally down to take you out for the real deal.

(Come) Out, Damn'd Spot!-- A Map to the Female Orgasm?

Ever wonder why guys tend to go tearing off without maps up unfamiliar exit ramps, start putting together things without looking at the manual, and generally have the inability to follow instruction? We are victims of the g-spot. We don't know any better than to fumble around aimlessly until we accomplish our mission. No other phenomenon demonstrates the vagueness of females better than the female orgasm. I think I've given a girl an orgasm before? It's that same feeling as I used to have after completing a huge math problem: I'd turn to the back for the answer and I was either spot on, or way off. But, even when I was correct, I was never sure I was right until I checked the answer...and I could never remember how I even figured out the answer.

It almost feels as if I just lucked out if I give a girl an orgasm: It's like accidentally opening a secret passageway in an old house by pulling the correct book from the book case. Problem is, even if I'm repeatedly with the same girl, her shelves are lined with similar looking books, which seem to change order...and there's no guarantee that I'll ever find that book again to open the secret passageway. Was that even how I did it in the first place?

And what is this g-spot anyway? I hear it might exist, but it might not—like Bigfoot or the Lock Ness Monster. People just stumble upon those guys when they see them, and the public still doesn't believe in the sightings. I have this awful feeling that the g-spot is in a different place on every single girl. The idea of the g-spot is awesome: a girl will have an orgasm if you touch it (I think?). But I've had different girls tell me that their g-spot is in different locations—and some girls have told me they don't even know if they have one or where it is if they do have one! 

How am I supposed to figure out where to go if the owner of the g-spot doesn't know where it is?

I wish the g-spot was like a moth—you know— how they all congregate to light for some reason? I'd just head down there with a spelunking cap on and let the g-spot come to me.

Unfortunately, I think the evil jokester known as biology (boy has that jerk played a lot of tricks on me) has set the g-spot to be like one of those opposite ends of a magnet against my finger—or whatever appendage I try to find it with. You know how when the wrong ends of the magnets line up they avoid one another even when you try to force them together? Bottom line: if girls don't even know where the special book is to open the secret passage in their own library, no way I'm going to find it.

After looking at the inventory of a sex toy shop, I'm surprised that any guy can give any girl an orgasm whether he finds the g-spot or not. This is because he's equipped with a simple run-of-the-mill penis. Look at these vibrators and dildos (dildoes?) out there.How am I supposed to compete with them? This one has little spikes around its head like a cactus. That one has another thing protruding out the top so that there is something going in and touching above. Another one gyrates around at adjustable speeds and has a charger! Goodness! Last I checked, my penis didn't do any of these things, or have a cute name like "rabbit". Yet another evil trick biology has played on me. I guess I feel the same way a girlfriend feels when she finds hidden porn with Jenna Jamison in it:

"Is that how you wish I looked"?

Well, is that how you wish my penis looked? 

In the end, it is good that we are all different. If the girl's secret book was always in the same place, life would get boring. It's fun to learn about each other's minds and bodies when you're in love. And, until I am an expert—and that will never happen—I will just go by my "follow her cues, breathing, and movements" strategy. So, when she's breathing all sexy, I'll do more of that and oops—awkward moment— no more of whatever I just tried. Some day maybe I'll have a database of moves and maps, and complex equations I can rely on but, until the clever female orgasm stops mutating and there's an "X" marking the g-spot, that's not going to happen.

How I Trained Myself to Have Multiple Orgasms

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You know Venus, the Roman goddess of love, beauty, sex, and abundance? She’s a personal favorite of mine, and I realized the best way to pay homage to her would be to not only have orgasms, but have multiple orgasms. (Abundance, after all.) Though it seems practically mythological, experts I spoke with explained that it’s possible to actually train yourself to become multi-orgasmic. And guess what? When I followed their advice, I was able to achieve orgasm after orgasm—and I’m pretty sure that anyone with a clitoris can get there, too.

It turns out that, although penises tend to have a “refractory period” (or, time necessary between orgasms), vaginas are uniquely suited to coming more than once. “Because there is more surface area on a vulva and inside a vagina, there’s more ability for multiple orgasms,” says clinical psychologist and certified sexologist Denise Renye, Ph.D. “Once the first orgasm is enjoyed, switching up pressure and exact location [of stimulation] can allow for more orgasms to follow. For people with penises, there’s less availability for more than one orgasm in a pleasure session.”

Of course, there are also a variety of common reasons—from medications to past sexual trauma to health conditions—that make it difficult for some people with vaginas to achieve orgasm. If this applies to you (and I’ve certainly gone through periods in which it applied to me), fear not: You’re not broken and there’s nothing wrong with you. In fact, you can still enjoy touch and pleasure even if you don’t come, because getting to know your body through self-touch can be a beautiful and healing experience.

With that in mind, here’s everything you need to know about how to tap into your own multi-orgasmic power. It’s what Venus would want.

Find out what orgasms feel like to you.

As stated above, vaginas don’t require “cool-down” time between sessions the way penises do: Not only can they enjoy sexual touch sooner, they can have one orgasm right after another. But what exactly counts as having multiple orgasms? Is it more like three orgasms a day or one super long one?

“Multiple orgasms can be understood as each time the body builds up pleasure and builds up pleasure to then have a grand finale of pleasure,” says Dr. Renye. “Though the level of pleasure as an orgasm goes on may vary from person to person.”

Personally, I consider an experience to be multi-orgasmic if I climax, and then with continued stimulation, climax again without a long break in between. However, much like the words you use to describe your identity, gender, and sexuality, you ultimately choose what it means for your body to be multi-orgasmic. To my knowledge, there’s no official definition of “multiple orgasms,” it’s just what it feels like to you.

“If you’re looking at your watch, you’re doing it wrong,” says somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist Holly Richmond, Ph.D. “I want everyone to have orgasms, but as soon as that becomes the goal we’re almost taking away from the concept of pleasure, right?”

Yes, multiple orgasms are about the journey, not the destination—although I shall not downplay how dope that destination is.

Try to have multiple orgasms through masturbation before you try with a partner.

Regardless of your relationship status, masturbation tends to be the best way to learn what kind of stimulation you need in order to achieve multiple orgasms. “It’s essential,” Dr. Richmond says. It makes sense: With masturbation, you get to control the experience, free of expectation and with only your own pleasure in mind. Though your partner probably means well, nothing tends to kill a building orgasm like your someone popping up between your legs and asking, “Did you come yet?” (Bless their hearts.)

Plus, in my experience, my vibrator and my hands are better at making me come than a partner’s touch, simply because I know my body the best.

The first step to becoming multi-orgasmic—and how I eventually achieved it—is to masturbate as much as possible.

Practice, practice, practice.

This is the simplest recipe for multiple orgasms: Apply continued physical stimulation—such as by hand or vibrator—coupled with continued arousal.

For me, that meant watching porn (here’s a list of some great feminist porn sites) while using my Hitachi wand. After I came once, I kept the porn on and the wand against my clitoris until I came again. When I finally finished, I allowed myself to rejoice in my post-orgasmic afterglow.

Since then, I’ve had multiple orgasms through other means, including my hands and various sex toys. Sometimes, rather than watch porn, I’ll just imagine my filthiest fantasies. The thing is, once you find what works for you, multiple orgasms can become a normal part of your sex life. That’s because, as Dr. Richmond says, your body learns from the first experience. “The pelvic floor is trainable just like biceps are trainable,” she says. “There’s muscle memory. The more you practice, the better you’ll get.”

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Introduce your training into partner play.

If you’re in a relationship or enjoying casual partnered sex with someone, try communicating openly and honestly about what it would take to get you to achieve multiple orgasms with them. Better yet? Give them a hot demo about how you give them to yourself, so that they may learn from your masterful techniques. It’s totally normal if they can’t make it happen for you right away, but even just showing a partner how you give yourself multiple orgasms can be erotic and intimate.

But first, spend some time alone and learn what works for you. You come first.