Inside The Secret World Where You Can Have Sex With a Total Stranger

What Is a Sex Club? Here’s Everything You Need to Know to Find Fast Hookups With Hot Girls in a Sex Club Near You…

I’m guessing you spent some of your childhood doing stuff with “clubs.”

Boy Scouts, karate, chess club, swimming club, you name it.

But you’re a grown man now. Clubs are a thing of the past, right?

Not necessarily…

Adults get to have fun with clubs, too.

Maybe you’ve even heard someone mention a sex club.

What are these mysterious gatherings?

Can they be real?

I’m here to answer all of those questions.

First of all, yes, sex clubs are real.

Read on to learn what goes on inside of them, and how you can get involved, if you want to.

What Is a Sex Club & Where Can You Find One?

Let’s start with the basics.

What in the world is a sex club?

Essentially, it’s a big hookup party.

A sex club is a nightclub that people go to expecting to maybe have sex while there.

Lots of clubs have a big, open dance floor on the first floor.

Rooms upstairs can be used for hooking up, or acting out fantasies.

Sex clubs are usually pretty regulated, with multiple bouncers.

Everyone asks permission before touching another person.

And that’s it. A sex club is a dance club where things get a little more X-rated.

Now let’s bust some common myths about sex clubs.

Because you might be thinking:

A sex club could be fun to try!

Then again, you might be worried because of some bad info floating around out there.

Let’s clear up some of these myths.

Myth #1: Everybody At a Sex Club Is a “Perfect 10”

Wrong! researchers who visited sex clubs, and interviewed people who go there often, said this is not true.

There are plenty of hotties, of course.

There are also plenty of people you won’t be attracted to.

Most of the people, though, are what you might call “average.”

That means they’re real people.

Real women—not only 6-foot-tall supermodels.

Real women means real beauty.

It also means, even if you aren’t an underwear model yourself, you won’t feel out of place.

Women are attracted to all sorts of different looks, so all types of guys are welcome at these clubs.

Myth #2: You MUST Have Sex in a Sex Club

Nope!

You never HAVE to have sex, ever, of course, and this applies at a sex club, too.

Plenty of people go to sex clubs just to do a little light messing around.

Also, whoever you hook up with at a sex club might want to set limits.

A conversation is all it takes to make sure everyone has fun and stays comfortable.

If you want to decline an encounter, you can politely say no. That’s totally normal at sex clubs.

But you can also say yes.

Myth #3: Sex Clubs Are a Place to Hookup Only With Strangers

Once again, nope!

A totally head-over-heels in love married couple can go to a sex club.

A totally monogamous couple can go to a sex club—and just hookup with each other.

Plenty of couples go to sex clubs to “swing,” or hookup with other people, without any lying or sneaking.

But others go just to be with each other.

In fact, this is a great way to get frisky in public!

Lots of people are into that, but it usually comes with the risk of getting, um, arrested.

Not at a sex club! Spice up your relationship by getting intimate in a totally new way.

Sharing this info with your lady might convince her to come along.

This can be fun even if you’re single. If you’re having a fling with an adventurous woman, she might be down.

Myth #4: If You Hookup in a Sex Club, It Has to Be In Public

False. Sex clubs can be so much more than a public hookup, or a space to fulfill some kind of “kink.”

Lots of clubs have special areas, or events, created for different fantasies.

This is extra true if you’re into exhibitionism (being watched while having sex), or voyeurism (watching others have sex).

Some clubs have actual “viewing platforms” for people who are into this.

Other clubs are designed for people with certain fetishes.

And other clubs, still, are for people who are otherwise completely “normal” sexually, and just want to have sex in a new space with a new person.

Check out local clubs to find one that offers what you’re into.

Getting involved is as simple as searching online to learn about sex clubs in your area.

Read some online reviews to learn the details and find a vibe you like.

Keep an eye out for “newbies” nights—many clubs offer events for new people, to make everything less overwhelming!

Next, how does a guy prepare to go to a sex club?

Not too tricky, actually.

Researchers found that most men at sex clubs dressed as if they were on a date.

Unless your local club has a special theme, you can usually just show up wearing night club attire.

(I’m gonna go out on a limb and suggest you bring some condoms. Because, I mean, it’s a sex club.)

If any of this sounds fun to you, why not give it a try?

A sex club could be a good way to get out of a rut.

It could lead to your next regular fling, or even relationship.

Which brings me to the final myth about sex clubs… and it’s one of the most commonly believed by men all over the world:

Myth #5: You Can’t Get Repeat Hookups in Sex Clubs

It’s true… if you go to the right clubs, you can meet complete strangers, and have sex with them, no strings attached.

BUT… there’s a problem.

A lot of guys at these clubs are clueless about how to make a woman come… and if you can’t make a woman come, then she will move on to a different guy at the club who can make her come.

However…

If you can make her come, and you can make her come quick, then guess what?

She’s going to want to keep fooling around with you that night… and she will want to keep seeing you outside of the club too.

And by far the fastest way to make a girl come, and give her multiple intense orgasms, is a technique called “5 Finger Tantra.”

The first time my ex used this move on me, I came so hard I couldn’t see straight!

Is Kissing “Cheating”? 2,000 Women Reveal the Shocking Answer…

What Does it Mean to “Cheat” In 2019? The Shocking Truth, Plus How to Use This to Sleep With More Women Right Away… 

As soon as “couples counseling” became trendy, everyone over the age of 10 was told that “communication is key.”

And as annoying as it might be to hear over and over… it still holds true.

However, communication still causes a lot of problems, especially in relationships. So how many people are really listening?

For example, my sister’s ex-boyfriend cheated on her multiple times before she found out. And as soon as she learned that he had been hooking up with other women, she wasted no time ending their relationship.

This was after three years of dating–three years, and they had never had the talk of defining what “cheating” really meant. My sister just assumed his views were the same as hers, though this fatal mistake ended up causing her heartache and, eventually, betrayal.

It would have been so much easier for both parties if they had known where each other’s boundaries lied, don’t you think?

Well, one new study has finally addressed this–and the results may shock you.

The Study That Revealed How Real Women Define “Cheating”…

Conducted by Superdrug, the study surveyed over 2,000 people about all sorts of cheating-related topics:

• What it means to “cross the line” with another person…
• Why a person may or may not cheat on his/her partner…
• Whether or not they’ve cheated before & how many times…
• How the cheating started…

And that’s just the tip of the iceberg. But today, I want to focus on what the females in the survey said they considered “cheating” to be.

Before we get to kissing, let’s touch on some more surprising statistics the survey revealed.

Spooning: 70.8% of women say spooning or cuddling is cheating, compared to 62.7% of men.

Holding hands: While 52.6% of women think hand-holding counts as cheating, only 46.4% of men agree.

Going out as friends: 43.5% of women say even going out as friends is cheating–29.2% of men agree.

Getting emotionally close: A whopping 70.8% of women think that getting emotionally close is cheating. However, just 46.4% of men think so.

What this study is proving, is that the thought processes surrounding how men and women think about cheating are drastically different. What you may consider OK to do, she might consider as cheating (and vice versa).

But enough of that–let’s get to the main topic of discussion. Does kissing count as cheating?

Kissing Another Person: Cheating Or Fair Game?

Here’s what the survey said about kissing:

88.5% of women believe that kissing another person counts as cheating. So that means there are 11.5% of women who think it doesn’t count.

As for the men, 80.7% of guys also believe kissing is cheating. Which means that nearly 20% of guys think kissing doesn’t count.

So what?

So, clearly there’s a disparity between how men and women view kissing other people. And in a relationship, this can cause some serious issues.

Most likely, the reason that more women view kissing as cheating than men is because women tend to feel the desire to kiss someone with whom they share an emotional connection. Of course, this isn’t always the case, though it often is.

Men, on the other hand, may be more inclined to get physical with a woman they don’t share a connection with. And as a result, they may be able to forget about it without any residual guilt.

So if you’re in a relationship, what can you do to make sure you’re on the same page? And if you’re single, does it really even matter?

Yes–and here’s why:

So What Can You Do About It?

If you’re in a relationship, the obvious solution is to have a conversation with your significant other. In this conversation, you need to establish the following:

• “Are we exclusive?”…
• “How do you define cheating, and how does that compare to my definition?”…
• “Where do we set our boundaries?”…

And any other topics related to cheating that might come up.

When you talk to her about this, make sure to listen and be open to discussing all sorts of things–even if it makes you feel a little uncomfortable.

Then you can use this as a foundational element of your relationship, which will ultimately make it that much stronger. It’s a tough conversation to have, no doubt, but if you’re serious about her, it’s absolutely necessary.

That way, there won’t be any blurred lines that either of you can accidentally (or purposefully) trip over down the line.

And if you’re single?

Just keep the study’s findings in the back of your mind–remember, women take getting emotionally close to someone a lot more seriously than men do, so if you feel yourself becoming close to a woman, recognize that this may be a really big step for her.

You can also use the findings to spot the ways that make women feel most emotionally attached to someone–so if you want to take things to the “next level,” make sure to hold her hand, cuddle her, and kiss her.

Ultimately, though, the best way to prevent any kind of messy situation is to avoid the kind of woman who tends to cheat in the first place… and here’s how to do that:

Is She A Cheater? Use This 6-Question Picture-Quiz to Find Out…

The easiest way to know if a woman will cheat… is to figure out her true level of interest in you.

Because women are often easily distracted… and can sometimes be very emotionally unstable… if she’s not truly into you, both sexually and mentally… then the odds that she’ll cheat go way up.

That’s why we made this 6-question picture-quiz:

It’s based on the true signs a woman wants you, like her eye contact, body language, and other subtle clues… and it will almost instantly let you know:

“Is she worth my time… or should I move on?”