2019年7月3日星期三

9 Sexy Lingerie Pieces He Wants You to Wear

Some people like to cover their physical assets while others want to show it all off, but for you and your lover, if less is more or more is better, there is likely to be something on our lingerie list that might just suit you, either way – whichever you pick – he'll definitely love it!

1. Stockings and Suspenders or Garter Belts

Stockings and Suspenders or Garter Belts
Stockings and Suspenders or Garter Belts seem to be standard wear for raunchy sex with your lover and can be added to most other items of lingerie to sex things up.
Most of the men I spoke to on this subject told me that there’s just something about the small expanse of thigh above the tops of the stockings and below the panties that is a turn on – a suggestion of naked skin perhaps.

2. Hold Up Stockings

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Hold Up Stockings can be a wonderful alternative to the fiddle and flunk of suspenders.
If, like me, you just don’t have the patience and the eyes in the back of your head that you seem to need with suspenders, then Hold Ups could be just right.
They have the same allure of naked thigh at the stocking tops, and there are many types and patterns of lace as well as lots of colors and finishes to complement most things.
Again, I got the thumbs up from my research panel of males. To help them stay the course, a small splash of water helps to keep them attached to your legs

3. Basques and Corsets

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Basques and Corsets always look very sexy, and usually both garments are designed to pull you in or push you up or both with the main aim of accentuating all your assets.
Basques and corsets tend to be extra supportive of the bust and cinch in the waist, but are short in the body making it necessary to wear panties. Long line basques are available, which can come with a layer or two of lace at the base allowing for a little extra modesty or mystery depending on your point of view.
The bones, padding and wires often found in this type of lingerie can make the garments a bit rigid and difficult to get on if you are on your own. They can also be very uncomfortable to wear for long periods of time.
It’s very important to get the right size and shape for you, so once you’ve chosen what you think will look good, read the reviews to get some other opinions.
However, the overall effect is likely to make your lover rather hot so who cares about a little discomfort?

4. PVC, PU and vinyl lingerie

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PVC, PU and vinyl lingerie are all made from high shine, potentially very slippery material used to make all sorts of sexy items.
The internet is a ready source of all types of PVC lingerie and there are many styles and designs available: from 0basques to corsets to bras and panties, some with zips or studs and lace or just pull on or off with plunging neck lines or high splits.
Wearing something PVC is the closest thing to feeling naked as the fabric skims over the skin moulding every curve and protuberance along the way.
Since it’s very tight and feels like a second skin, the feel of wearing it or touching it can be very sexy both for you and your lover.

5. Peekaboo and crotchless underwear

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Peekaboo and crotchless underwear can be highly seductive, particularly if you tell your lover what you are ‘not’ wearing whilst you are out in a public place (if you dare).
This lingerie can be good too if you like the idea of being semi-covered whilst allowing access to your more… erogenous zones. Once again, there is a wide choice of colors and styles available, some more overt and revealing than others.

6. French knickers and matching bra

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French knickers and matching bra are a must if you or your lover are fans of the more is more type of lingerie.
The panties are full knickers up to the waist, almost like lacy wide leg shorts that finish on the thigh, whilst the bra is usually without under wires or padding, making the whole thing feel softer, lacy and very feminine. Potentially super comfortable for you, the wearer, and still sexy for your lover.

7. Chemises

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Chemises come in so many varieties that it’s hard to talk about just one style. Essentially these are meant for sleeping in so they are invariably comfortable without wires or padding and quite easy to wear a bra and panties beneath.
Some are completely transparent, perhaps with lace cups, while others have side splits; many have detachable suspenders and some are just soft and lacy.
Simply feminine in style and just as sexy as some of the other items that I have mentioned, a chemise can also be great at covering up wobbly bits or even accentuating your best bits while keeping the rest under some sort of lacy cover .

8. A Baby Doll

A Baby Doll lingerie
A Baby Doll with a thong can give you that sex on legs look – flirty, frilly and suggestive. They can cover up lumps and bumps or reveal, or almost reveal, your sexiest assets – the choice is yours depending on the style, fabric and color you choose.

9. Bra and panties

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Bra and panties can be provocative and suggestive and often a matching lacy set is all you need to bring excitement or seduction into your love life.
Brazilian style panties with high cut-away lace to expose a little more of your smooth backside can make for a very sexy look and one your lover is sure to enjoy.
So ladies, whatever suits you, above all remember to have confidence. It’s all about you, so wear what makes you feel good, which will give you confidence and in turn will definitely give you a sexy look. Whatever piece of sexy lingerie you pick, we're sure your guy will totally love it!

The Art of Sexting: When Sex Meets Texts

If you don’t do it already, you might be wondering why you should sext at all. Well, for many reasons.
One of them is convenience. Sometimes it’s easier to send a quick, flirtatious reminder of your pretty self to your significant other rather than interrupting them with a call just to say, “Hey. I’m thinking about you”.
It’s also an excellent way to stay in touch while you build intimacy and keep the flame burning in a long distance relationship, or a fail proof technique to avoid routine in a long term relationship.
Sexting is also a fun and less awkward way to propose and negotiate what you’d like in bed thanks to the buffer of the phone between you and your partner. Use this tool to ask for what you want as clearly as you want.
Keep in mind that it’s a great way to suss out your sexual compatibility in the initial stages of a relationship (if he brings up a fantasy that could be a deal breaker for you, you could talk to him about it and negotiate or run as fast as you can).
Also, sexting can be very useful to explore potential activities together. (NOTE: Please be coherent with what you suggest and what you’re actually willing do. For example: Don’t bring up doing it by the back door via text if you’re horrified to do it in real life. Be authentic and be yourself.)
Another plus is that sexting helps you to improve your dirty talk—especially if you’re more shy and demure in reality.

Sexting as Foreplay

Foreplay is the prelude to coitus and includes a wide range of activities from innocent kissing to more physical and hands-on explorations. However, foreplay doesn’t start with the innocent touching; it starts much earlier than this when we put our biggest sex organ –our brain– to work.
The act of sex is not limited to mere intercourse (or “put it in, then pull it out” and that’s all). It begins with the fantasy and the anticipation of it. When it comes to erotic arousal, anticipation is key.
Sharing kinky thoughts with your significant other can be as fun as putting these thoughts into action as tension builds. Instant gratification is always pleasant, but the amount of pleasure intensifies when you wait for the release. After all, not being able to have what we want right now makes us want it even more. It’s more about a psychological game than something physical.
WARNING: Keep it consensual. Start slowly when you try to incorporate sexting for the first time in a relationship. There's nothing more disgusting than receiving a random, unrequested d*ck pic from someone you barely know. Similarly, sending your significant other random and unrequested nudes or shooting hardcore dirty talk out of the blue might be considered rude.
Make sure the other person is okay with it as not everyone is into this kind of game. You could begin in a casual way, texting something like, “I was thinking about you lying in my bed the other night…”, “Guess what I’m wearing,” or “Does this outfit *show something sexy* look good on me”? If he follows, GREEN LIGHT!
Also, knowing that you think about him in an erotic way will turn him on a lot.
And, as it will boost his ego, making him feel more confident, chances are good that when you see him later, his performance will be awesome. Get ready for a big night by sending something naughty.

Ambiguous is Good

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I don’t mean that you should be cryptic and make it impossible for him to understand your thoughts because most men are clueless and you might not get the response you want. What I mean is that you should tease him. Remember that men live for the “maybe.”
Send something that’s suggestive but not too explicit. When it comes to sending pictures, less is more.
It’s more exciting to show a silhouette in low lights or a cropped body part (make it a cute one) wearing few clothes than a full frontal nude. Let him imagine the rest. Be subtle with your insinuations and build from there to whatever you’re both comfortable with.

The Surprise Factor

For most people, receiving something pleasant that they didn’t see coming is very rewarding.
If you feel you’re getting stuck in a routine or you wake up feeling extra naughty—or even have no reason to do so—surprise your man with a flirty message. You’re likely to put a big smile on his face in the process!
The spontaneity and improvisation that take place while sexting will add a lot of sparkle to your relationship. It doesn’t matter if you’ve started dating recently or you’ve been married for forty years. Plus, it's a reminder that you’re thinking about him and a good way to remind him about the amazing and confident woman he has next to him in the middle of a busy day. Make him feel good and you’ll harvest the results.

The Power of Imagination

In this era of social networks and instant communications, there’s no excuse for not being creative.
There are millions of things you can send to turn him on: classic texts, photos, memes, emojis, voice notes, songs, videos, etc. Skip the routine, “Hey babe. I’m horny. Come over and bring pizza,” late night text.
Instead, tell him you miss him in an original way. Even a wink emoji can soften a line that in other ways would’ve come out crude. Yes, you can actually flirt with emojis. It’s all about clarifying the intention with which you say something.

How to Sext Safely

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He might be Prince Charming and unlikely to use screenshots of your texts or pictures as a means of revenge, blackmail or profit, but keep in mind that what goes out in the media (particularly on the internet) stays there forever even if you delete it, and a skilled enough hacker can access your material and pull a J Law on you.
Therefore, try not to use your name or contact info and avoid including visuals of your face if you’re sending a nude. You can always crop them or blur them. Don’t be paranoid, just cautious. Triple check before sending anything. (Imagine if you sent the text to your dad, your boss or the entire school!)
Sexting in inappropriate places or situations is the best. Just make sure you have your poker face on and nobody’s looking over your shoulder.
As internet has memory and people can be evil, delete your messages periodically or put a password on your devices. That way, you’ll avoid potential screw ups. Finally, please remember that sending something sensual to another person doesn’t mean that you’re obligated to have sex if you don’t want to.
If you’re still not convinced to give sexting a go, you’re missing out! If for no other reason than the fun of it, give it a try with these tips on how to nail it. We promise you’ll never look back!
Do you have any sexting stories to tell? Share your doubts and thoughts in the comments section below!

2019年7月1日星期一

Sexy Lingerie To Seduce And Satisfy Your Partner

In a world where erotic novels like 50 Shades of Grey become major motion pictures, it’s only right that we find the sexiest piece of lingerie for a night in with our mates. Trying to decide between corsets, teddies and garter belts can be a task by itself—especially if you don’t know where to shop.
If you’ve dabbled in lingerie, chances are you’ve browsed the Victoria’s Secret lingerie collection, but so has everyone else! Sampling the same lingerie repeatedly can halt and put a stalemate on your sex life, but rekindling the fire is easier than you’d think.
Whether you’re a ‘vanilla’ lover or 50 Shades mistress, this lingerie will give you that spark you’re looking for.

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Kiki de Montparnasse

Kiki de Montparnasse is all about liberation and the art of seduction. Parisian-inspired, this New York-based brand knows what it means to show off the body and seduce a lover in all aspects. A professional at temptation, Kiki de Montparnasse not only creates lingerie to cling to your every curve, but also creates pieces for your home and bath.
Lovers of lace, Kiki de Montparnasse will leave you feeling boldly bare and nearly nude. In a creatively crafted piece, the brand leaves little to the imagination in a red lace bodysuit. Successfully finding ways to increase the sex appeal of a corset, they insert lace panels that will surely have your partner ready to pop off the hooks.

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Agent Provocateur

If you’re sexy and unafraid to show it, Agent Provocateur will definitely cater to your style. With claims to serve everyone “from the romantic to the risqué,” this luxury lingerie brand will leave you feeling like a lady in lace or a sex pistol in silk.
Agent Provocateur includes an extensive lace collection that features a must-have navy corset with lace panels. It also features a see-through lace cover up and a bra and brief set perfectly made to entice any viewer.

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Any hands-on lover will be itching to touch you in Agent Provocateurs’ silk collection. An expert with demi-cups, many of their designs consist of the softest silk with slight touches of lace or embroidery. In one of their sexiest pieces, the ‘Robyn Ouvert Black’ silk panties include cut-outs with silk inserts and extra straps to nip in the waist.

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Fleur of England

While you may have never heard of Fleur of England, you’ve definitely seen it. Ever wonder what bra Kourtney Kardashian wears underneath her see-through outfits? Ding, ding, ding.
Kourtney K isn’t the only celebrity who favors Fleur of England. You’ll find A-listers like Sarah Jessica Parker and Katy Perry wearing signature Fleur of England pieces. Although the brand also creates swimwear, they are known for creating lingerie perfect for any scenario in the bedroom (or anywhere else).
Fleur of England comes equipped with collections for your style and bedroom tastes. If you’re a luxurious lover and have extremely high tastes, the ‘Caviar’ collection features gorgeous blue pieces with embroidered details.

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If you prefer a warm and cozy night in, the ‘Hot Chocolate’ collection will warm up your partner. These rich brown silk and lace combinations might be just what you need for steaming up the bedroom on a cold night.

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Anya Lust

Anya Lust is new to the lingerie scene. Launched in December 2015, this newbie brand has all the workings of a well-polished lingerie company. With a “dream of… drifting through lust and love,” this brand will surely leave your partner lusting after you. With much more appeal to the young seductress, Anya Lust will be the key to turning up the temperature.
Although Anya Lust includes the classic garter set and silk slip, many of their styles are breathtakingly new. While the brand features hundreds of items to choose from, you might find yourself drawn to a high-waist silk panty with cut-outs and lace inserts or a white lace kimono, perfect for waiting around for your mate to come home.

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Lingerie is sexy, flirty, fun, and all of the above, especially when you have someone to share it with, but first and foremost, it’s supposed to make you feel good about yourself. Even if you don’t have a partner to seduce, there’s no reason not to buy and wear lingerie for yourself!
These are some of our favorite lingerie brands. Let us know in the comments below some of yours!

Being Single Doesn’t Mean You Can’t Be Sexy And Fabulous

I was always the single girl. I watched as all my friends had boyfriend after boyfriend. I had always wondered what it was that I was doing wrong? Why could I not find a man worth dating?
I decided to use my time as a single woman wisely. I stopped worrying about men and focused on myself. During that time, I learned more about myself than I ever had. I felt more fabulous than ever.
In the midst of it all, I made a decision to go to Germany as an au pair for a year. It was during this step where I met the love of my life. Finally, I had met a man who was everything I had been waiting for. He is my soon-to-be hubby.
If I had never taken time to truly focus on myself, I never would have traveled, come to know what it was I wanted in life or have met my future husband.
Love seems to come once you learn about yourself and love the woman you are. Use the time as a single woman wisely. It´s the time to work on your relationship with yourself, which is the most rewarding thing that you can do for yourself.
As Carrie Bradshaw said, “The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that´s just fabulous”.
Being single used to mean that you weren’t wanted by anyone. Now, it has evolved into being independent and not needing anyone by your side. Stating you’re a single woman gives you a sense of empowerment because it means that you are doing it on your own.
We all know why we love our sexy and single selves is because we are able to do whatever we want. Are you ready to take these exciting steps to become the fabulous woman that you are?

1. Learn how to enjoy being alone

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This is a huge step, I know. You should learn to enjoy your own company. Remember the focus is to improve the relationship with yourself. The relationship that you have with yourself plays an important role when it comes to the relationships that you will have with others.
It´s important for you to like who you are as a person. Start by taking some time for yourself. Begin doing little activities alone, such as taking fifteen minutes to read a book you enjoy. Or, cook your favorite meal for yourself because you’re fabulous and you deserve it.
I am challenging you to get out of your comfort zone here, ladies. I dare you to do the unspeakable and go to a public place alone. Go to a nice restaurant by yourself, see a movie alone or grab an after-work drink with just yourself.
Why do this you may ask? This opens you up to being more comfortable with yourself. Learning to be alone with yourself gives you time to recharge, become independent, find out what you are truly interested in and to appreciate your current relationships. It also helps to reduce your anxiety over being alone.
Treat yourself to something special, for you. It’s like you are dating yourself. Trust me: after a while it becomes empowering. How wonderful would it be to escort yourself to dinner because you are just that fabulous?

2. Change your mindset

Every day, try and focus on doing one thing for yourself that makes you happy. This can´t be something that comes from somebody else; it must come from you.
It´s healthy to take time out of your day to do something for yourself. Take just five minutes a day to write down the one thing you did for yourself that day, then explain why it made you feel happy. Not only will this be therapeutic, but it’ll be something positive to read as time goes on. Get creative and experiment. Find out what it is that you enjoy in life.
It´s important to be able to reflect and be alone with your own thoughts—to have time to think by yourself. You have to figure out what you like and dislike. It´s hard to know what you’re looking for when you don´t even know what it is you want. The goal is to become in tune with yourself.

3. Go for it

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Do the things you´ve always wanted to do. Take that yoga class you´ve been dying to try out. Apply for that job you really want. Travel to wherever it is you desire. Drink five margaritas before noon. The point is to just do it. Get out there and experience. You will do nothing but grow, learn and feel fabulous in the process.

4. Too fabulous for you

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You know the saying: “If you look good, then you feel good”. This is true. Take care of yourself. This doesn’t mean working out and juicing daily, but if you find the motivation to do so then, by all means, go for it. Just do something to get your heart rate up for the day.
My favorite exercise, which I highly recommend, is Tiffany Rothe´s workout videos which you can find on her YouTube channel. It´s just the right amount of work for me. Plus, doing her workouts makes me feel sexy and healthy.
Just remember to treat yourself as the fabulous woman that you are. Put on that red lipstick and wear those heels that everyone says are too high because you are a single woman who is fabulous enough to do whatever she wants. Are you feeling fabulous yet? Please share with us! We want to hear.