Threesome Gone Wrong: Man Catches Girlfriend with Threesome Partner and Beats the Man Bloody

After returning home and catching his girlfriend having sex with the man the couple had a threesome with the day before, trouble ensued. The boyfriend immediately flew into a fit of rage and attacked the man, injuring his girlfriend in the process. His girlfriend (or possibly his ex-girlfriend) has suffered a few cuts on her face and lips, but she is expected to be okay physically. The couple’s ménage a trois partner, however, is hospitalized. The boyfriend beat the other man so badly that he was admitted to the ICU. Perhaps they should have discussed the rules of their threesome to avoid this shocking attack.

Threesomes. Most threesomes are not spur of the moment, contrary to popular belief. They are planned out and in many cases, when it is over, it’s over unless all parties agree to meet up again. Even under the best-planned circumstances, threesomes can go terribly wrong for all parties involved, but they rarely go so wrong that someone ends up in the hospital.

The Threesome. Unfortunately for one Brooklyn couple and their third party there was no calm ending to their fun. Though their threesome seemed to end well, the next day went horribly wrong. Apparently, the man the couple agreed to have the threesome with was worth another interaction with – minus one.

Saturday. The couple met the 23-year-old man on Saturday and agreed to the threesome. Apparently, at least in the boyfriend’s eyes, the three-way was only supposed to last the one night. On Sunday, things took a serious turn and people were hurt, very badly.

The Two Day Affair. Because the girlfriend and the other man decided to continue having sex the next day, and the boyfriend took a very big problem with that things got very bad. There was no arguing, the boyfriend just launched into a violent attack that left the other man near death. The boyfriend made a weapon and beat the man bloody with it, even injuring his girlfriend.

Rage. In an immediate fit of rage, the boyfriend ripped one of the legs off the coffee table and flew at the other man. He beat him with the table leg so severely that he did not even notice he had also hit his girlfriend during his attack, causing cuts and bruises on her lips and face. The police, understandably, were called.

Oops. Police were able to discern that the girlfriend and the man the couple enjoyed the threesome with were having sex in the couple's house and apparently said nothing to the boyfriend. He was very surprised when he came home to find his girlfriend having sex with the man from the night before. Though it is unclear whether he was upset at being left out or being uninformed, the nearly deadly attack was certainly dramatic.

Police Response. Police responded to the incident on Sunday afternoon at approximately 6:45 pm. The 54-year-old boyfriend was immediately taken into custody. The victim, a 23-year-old man, was immediately rushed to the hospital in very serious condition.

The 23-Year-Old. Though he clearly knew the man, the boyfriend was in such a rage that when police arrived, the man was unconscious with several severe head injuries. Police did not expect the man to survive. Fortunately, the doctors were able to save him though he is currently in ICU.

Rape Claims. The 54-year-old boyfriend tried to cover up his actions by saying that when he walked in the man was raping his girlfriend. Unfortunately for him, the girlfriend insisted that she was not being assaulted. She did assert for police that her boyfriend was in the wrong and attacked the man.

Heart Pains. After his arrest, the police had to transport the boyfriend to the hospital as well because he was complaining of chest pains. The boyfriend is fine and expected to recover and be charged. At the last check, the man still had charges pending against him. The girlfriend is okay and quite likely cleaning up the apartment from the messy beating.

Avoidable. Clearly, the boyfriend will be charged and the beaten man has a lot of healing to do, but the entire situation was avoidable. Had the couple adequately discussed what they were comfortable with, no one would have been hospitalized (hopefully), but this is just conjecture of course. Perhaps the boyfriend did not actually enjoy the threesome as much as the other two did.

Other Threesomes Ending Badly. There are a few other similar stories of threesomes ending badly, but very few of the details match up. Sometimes fights break out during the threesome if one party feels neglected. Perhaps one person was not really interested but did not want to be left out. A threesome can be tricky to navigate if the parties involved are not careful.

Not Sexy? Most people worry that having the conversation first can make things less spontaneous or sexy, but an unexpected trip to the hospital for any reason is not typically sexy either. The results of miscommunication in these situations often lead to embarrassing, violent and very naked fighting and even worse, police involvement and charges. Sometimes, it is just better to put everything on the table.

Other Fights. Another NY couple engaged in a threesome that evolved into a bit more, but quickly dissolved into an attack when one man tried to record the women involved. The boyfriend took offense and grabbed a baseball bat. By that time the threesome had turned into a full-blown orgy and everyone was upset enough with the man trying to record that three of the men involved took off after him.

What do You Think? Have you had a successful threesome while being in a relationship? Lots of people successfully have threesomes and more without wrecking their relationships, but clearly, some cannot handle it. Do you have any tips you want to share? If so, tell us in the comments!

This Is How Your Menstrual Cycle and Period Affects Your Orgasms

Everyone who’s had a period knows how tricky they can be. Many people know their menstrual cycle like the back of their hand but every once in a while it throws a wrench into the system. Menstrual cycles have an effect on your sex drive as well--researchers have even done studies on different effects this monthly cycle has on the libido. A few studies found that the menstrual cycle has a pretty interesting impact on orgasm and can change the way sex feels.

Patterns. Your menstrual cycle can do some pretty interesting things to you. If you have a regular cycle you may start to notice patterns throughout those 28 days. Your mood will adjust depending on where you are in the cycle, your productivity changes, your appetite.

Sex. Your menstrual cycle also has a big effect on your sex life as well. I mean, it makes sense right? Your monthly cycle is your body’s evolutionary way of preparing you for reproduction, but there’s more to it than just the normal cervical mucus/egg release stuff.

Intensity. Many people have found that sex feels differently throughout different stages of the cycle. The intensity of orgasms change throughout the month as well. Some people have found that sex during your period actually feels really good--like even better than regular sex.

Fascinated. Researchers are fascinated with the changes that occur during a person’s menstrual cycle and have even done studies on it. Some of the studies focused on libido, while others focused on how blood flowed through genitals. Several studies looked at the effects the cycle has on orgasms.

Similar Effects. Researchers at the University of Virginia, Charlottesville conducted a study using 115 female participants between ages 23-45. The researchers were surprised to find that the women reported similar effects on their orgasms at mid-cycle.

Survey. The team gave the participants a survey and then asked them to complete it twice. They had to do it once just before their period started, and then mid-cycle, around the time of ovulation. According to Psychology Today, “the women reported significantly more interest in sex and greater satisfaction from orgasm at mid-cycle.”

Blood Flow. A team of Dutch researchers decided to look at how blood flow is affected during the cycle--increased blood flow in the genitals is an indicator or sexual arousal. They used a machine to detect blood flow on their 20 female participants’ genitals and then showed them erotic videos, noting their findings.

Increase. The researchers found that there was an increase in genital blood flow around the time of the participants’ ovulation. The women were then surveyed about their libido throughout the month. They told the researchers that they felt more aroused during ovulation.

Hormonal Changes. "During the menstrual cycle, there are a ton of hormonal changes," Dr. Jamie Knopman of the Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine told Redbook. "While the first half of the cycle is dominated by estrogen, the second half is dominated by progesterone.”

Rise and Fall. She continued, “Add to that the rise and fall of hormones like LH (luteinizing hormone), FSH (follicle-stimulating hormone), and testosterone, and your body can experience many changes, some which have to do with sexual desire and the ability to achieve an orgasm."

Peak. Estrogen levels are at their peak during ovulation, and your body experiences an increase in LH--this makes things really great for people trying to reproduce and those who aren’t. Your vaginal secretions increase as well, making sex feel even better, and you may experience even more intense orgasms.

Position. Knopman explains, "It's sort of mother nature's way to increase the chance of conception. The cervix also changes position around the time of ovulation--its position becomes more 'comfortable' when you are ovulating, making intercourse less uncomfortable."

Period Sex. If you find a partner who isn’t squeamish about blood, you may want to give period sex a try--the days just before or after it will work as well. Climaxes during your period can be one of the most intense orgasms you will ever experience. Also orgasming releases oxytocin which can provide some pain relief.

Sensitivity. OB/GYN Kameelah Phillips told Redbook, “Depending on a woman's and her partner's comfort with bleeding, orgasm can be more intense for a few reasons. The increased blood flow to the pelvis can lead to greater genital sensitivity and therefore more intense orgasm."

Healthy. Of course, there’s a lot more that goes into an orgasm than just actual sex though. According to Phillips, they’re also very complex, and a manifestation of the “physical, emotional, and psychological state of women.” She explained, "Women may experience more intense orgasms just prior to ovulation, but they also experience intense orgasms when the relationship is healthy and they feel empowered in their life and body.”

What Booze Actually Does To Your Sex Life

Who doesn't love having a hot, wild, boozed up time in the sack?  Well, we hate to break it to you but it may not be the best thing for your libido, according to Dr. Madeleine Castellanos, a board-certified psychiatrist specializing in sex therapy.  Take a look below at what booze actually does to your sex life!

Alcohol effects your brain, making you less inhibited and more relaxed. As the brain is your body's biggest sex organ, the booze actually makes you more impulsive and less anxious

Despite what you actually think about tequila, no alcohol is actually an aphrodisiac. Well, except wine.

Because wine cranks up your blood flow, you get turned on more when drinking it.

With that being said, one or two drinks may make you feel turned on mentally, just not physically.

As we all know, booze clouds your judgement which is why most STDs and accidental pregnancies happen when you have been drinking.

It can also take a hot minute for girls to reach full climax when drinking.

For guys, getting to the big climax when they have been drinking can be difficult because they aren’t at full salute.

Booze actually "depresses" cells in your brain which makes rubbing and touching to get turned on a little bit harder.

Whiskey D is actually a real thing, and not just because you drank too much. It can happen when you have just one drink, because, like we said before, booze effects your brain and makes your body less sensitive.

Obviously, alcohol is dehydrating, so you may also find that it's harder for a girl to get…you know… wet.

The majority of bedroom related injuries happen after a night of heavy drinking.

It's not a good idea to use alcohol to calm your nerves before getting it on, because your body could start to develop a dependency on it and you won’t be able to do *it* without it.

Besides all the other stuff booze has done to your love life, it can also have major effects on your hormones, including lowering your testosterone or estrogen.

Some women think that the deed is better when you are under the influence, but sorry ladies, thats just the booze talking.

Bottom line: Drink and bone wisely.

How To Deal With Your Sexual Anxiety

Having sex is supposed to be an intimate, gratifying experience, but it's difficult to feel sexy, desirable, or good about the situation when you suffer from sexual performance anxiety.  Here, we deliver 15 tips on how to control your sexual anxiety for better and bigger Os!

First and foremost, tell your partner what you’re experiencing. Communication is key, so be open with your partner about your insecurities, fears, or worries.

Discuss strategies with your partner, and be open about each other’s needs and desires.

Take your time. Your partner (hopefully) isn’t going anywhere, so be patient.

If your problem is stamina, practice lasting longer by yourself.

Try edging—every time you get close to finishing, withdraw and wait until immediate passion passes.

Lubricate the situation and have a drink.

But not too many. Whiskey D is never fun.

If you can’t seem to get hard, try some hardwear—we’re talking about a ring for your wang.

The constrictive interlocking device is placed at the base of the member as a way to prevent blood from escaping the organ and thus, strengthen the stiffy.

Avoid adult films, as they only advertise unrealistic expectations.

Remember that adult film stars don’t actually look, sound, or even have sex like how their films portray them to.

Deliver an excess amount of foreplay.

That way, even if your sexual performance isn’t what you or your partner wanted, your partner will still be satisfied.

Exercise and eat right. Being confident in your body is an important part of overcoming sexual anxiety.

The more you’re not stressing about how you look, the easier it is to engage in pleasure in the bedroom.