10 Ways to Enjoy Awesome Anal Sex With Your Guy

If you’re going to enjoy anal sex as part of your sexual relationship, then you may as well explore all of the possibilities! I have put together a list of sexy ideas for you and your guy to try out, to help you get the most out of your anal play. Enjoy…

#1 Leave Your Knickers On!

As if anal sex wasn’t taboo enough… Why not leave your knickers on while he penetrates you? Pulling them to one side to reveal your ass will give him the hardest erection, because it will reinforce the idea that you are both doing something very naughty. So, naughty and spontaneous that you’re not even taking your underwear off while you do it!

#2 Invest In Some Naughty Anal Sex Knickers

If your guy is an ass guy, and what’s more, if you both enjoy having anal sex, you may as well make the experience as naughty as you possibly can, and surprise him by wearing the naughtiest pair of knickers you can get your hands on! Look for slutty knickers that have an opening to allow you to enjoy anal penetration without taking them off – your guy will be so shocked at how kinky you are when you pull up your skirt and bend over, he will want to grab you immediately.

#3 Spread Your Ass So He Can See It All!

It might sound obscene, but if you use your hands to pull your ass cheeks apart and reveal yourself to your guy, he will feel like you are offering yourself to him, which, by the way, is incredibly sexy to a guy who loves anal sex! Don’t by shy – you’re already bending over with your ass in the air, you may as well show him you really want it!

#4 Take Control And Go On Top

Anal sex feels completely different when the woman takes control. When you take the initiative to go on top during anal sex, you immediately tip the power scale, which can be a turn on for both of you! It also has its benefits, because you get to control the depth and pace of penetration, so you can go slow and build up the sexual anticipation gradually, and control his orgasm, until you can both take it no longer and explode! He also gets a great view of your breasts and stomach as you grind him to his climax.

#5 Enjoy Anal Sex And Clitoral Stimulation

Intensify your pleasure by multi-tasking! Stimulate your own clitoris during anal penetration with your fingers, or invite your guy to do it for you. You can also build yourself up to a powerful orgasm by clenching the muscles in your thighs and vagina with every thrust. Ask him to pinch your nipples too for an extra shot of pleasure that will head straight to the areas that are already tingling and begging for more!

#6 Stimulate Him While He Penetrates You!

If you are with an open-minded guy then you can make things even better for him by massaging his perineum while he penetrates your ass and rubs your clitoris. This way both of you can be experiencing mutual stimulation on all genital and anal areas, which is bound to lead to something explosive!

#7 Rimming Is Fun Too

Rimming is where you stimulate the other person by gently running your tongue around the rim of their anus. It is great for foreplay, and an amazing way to build up all of that important sexual anticipation that is going to help tip you over the edge when the time comes. If you are feeling daring you can even slip your tongue inside a bit and feel his sphincter muscles react to the slight penetration, which will feel wonderful for him! It can be exciting to feel his body respond with pleasure to something you do to him.

#8 Don’t Forget To Play With Toys

Anal sex can be even more fun if you introduce some anal toys into the mix! Make sure you use plenty of lubrication, and experiment with anal beads and butt plugs. Your guy will enjoy the visual stimulation of seeing your ass open and close around each bead as he pulls them out of your ass slowly. A butt plug will give you a nice full feeling while he is giving you oral sex!

#9 Have Anal Sex In Naughty Places

Combining the taboo experience of anal sex with something risqué like pleasuring each other in public places, or before you are expecting guests can add to the excitement. Let your guy put his hand up the back of your skirt and discretely massage your anus through your knickers. You are guaranteed to get extremely wet, and he will have to disguise his erection, but it will be worth it. Just don’t get caught!

#10 Do It Like The Porn Stars Do It

Ever fancied a threesome? You can bet your guy has fantasized about it. If you are both up for it and know someone you can trust, then why not have some fun acting out some common porn-positions that involve anal sex? Just make sure you stay safe and only do what you all feel comfortable with. Alternatively, it can be just as sexy to watch anal sex porn while you do it with your partner alone. It can even be sexy to just talk about having an anal sex threesome. Sometimes the fantasy is sexier when it’s kept in the imagination.

Need more anal tips? Check out my articles on having anal sex for the first time and some painless anal sex positions to have an even more orgasmic anal experience.

Share Your Anal Sex Experiences

Everyone likes to do it a little bit different to the rest of us, that’s what makes human beings so unique! And the great things about us all having such different experiences is that we can share them and learn new ways to enjoy ourselves! So share your anal sex experiences, tips and questions in the comments below!

4 Other Next-Level Sex Toys Someone Should Invent

Technology's putting its touch on the bedroom in a big way. From toys that sync with erotica-focused apps to hands-free buzzers, don't be surprised that your sex life is getting a 21st-century upgrade. There's still some room for innovation, though. Let's dream about the sex toys of the future, shall we? And if any inventors are reading this, now's your chance to turn these fantasies into a very orgasmic reality.

Books are the new Internet porn, so power down your devices (yes, including the TV) and grab one. Author Alessandra Torre says that reading erotica is better than watching porn because it allows your imagination to paint the scenes in a way you'll find most attractive. "Porn can actually be a turn-off if you're not into the guy, act, or environment, but words on a page allow you to paint the sexy canvas," says Torre. Need a rec? Add this collection of quick, steamy reads to your nightstand: The Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories by Rachel Kramer Bussel.

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1. A vibrator that feeds you ice cream. Two of the world's biggest pleasures combined. I can't be the only one who thinks there's something very sensual about digging into a huge bowl of dulce de leche, right? Even if my body's crossing weird wires, you have to admit that nibbling some ice cream on your way to orgasm could bring some cool, sweet relief to a very hot moment.
2. A toy that tells you exactly how to reach your best orgasm. Some women know precisely which spots to hit for an amazing orgasm, but others can feel equal parts mystified and frustrated by their bodies. How about a toy that analyzes the pleasure potential of your anatomy, then moves in just the right way to help you reach orgasm through your clitoris or G-spot—or both?
3. A vibrating spin bike. I've heard of a minority of lucky ladies who can come from regular ol' biking, so let's level the playing field a bit. Orgasm via exercise is the best motivation to get in a sweat session that's heart-pumping in more ways than one! I was thinking maybe this could apply to treadmills as well, but having an orgasm while running on a treadmill is probably the quickest way to land in the ER with a very embarrassing story.
4. A customizable hologram hookup. Bear with me, because this is weird. But you know how lately holograms have been taking off in the music world? A Tupac hologram graced the stage at Coachella a few years ago, and rumor has it a Selena hologram is in the works. So what if you could cherry-pick all the physical qualities that really got you going and create a hologram of a person that could get you off? This wouldn't be for the faint of heart (I don't think I'd try it, personally), but the idea is pretty mind-blowing.
5. A vibrator that deposits money into your bank account with every orgasm. Cha-ching!

3 Weird Things That Make It So Hot

It doesn't take much to elevate sex from good to oragasmically great. Your usual sexual routine can be elevated easily with a few simple changes that heighten the whole experience. Are some weird? Yep. But do they work? Yep. Here are three to try:

1993: 50 percent said they had sex five times or less per month. Now: 43 percent said they have sex less than six times per month, and almost a quarter say they're doing the deed up to 12 times a month.

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1. Drink more water. It's not like you want to drink so much that you have to pee in the middle of the act, but you should be gulping eight glasses of H2O a day. Here's why: Dehydration can affect your sex drive, as well as causing dryness down below.

2. Wear socks. WHAT?! We know. But wearing socks during the deed has a real sexy side effect: According to a study, warm feet calm a woman's amygdala and prefrontal cortex, the brain areas responsible for anxiety, fear, and danger signals. And with a calm brain, it's so much easier to orgasm.

3. Elevate your hips. Slide a pillow beneath your lower back or physically keep your hips lifted to ever-so-slightly change the angle of penetration. The tiny tweak will help him graze all the right spots.

Sex boffins claim lesbians are much more likely to ORGASM thanks to ‘golden trio’ of sex moves

LESBIANS are more likely to orgasm during sex thanks to a “golden trio” of moves including kissing, intimate stimulation and oral sex.

A new study suggests gay women are more likely to reach the ‘Big O’ with a sexual partner because they know what their partner wants.

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Lesbians are more likely to orgasm than straight women, according to a study. File pictureCredit: Alamy

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Study suggests 'golden trio' of actions increases the likelihood of a woman reaching the ‘Big O’ with a sexual partnerCredit: Alamy

A team of US researchers analysed data based on responses of more than 52,000 people aged between 18 and 65 who were in a relationship with one person.

The study, published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behaviour, found a combination of actions increases the likelihood of a woman reaching the ‘Big O’ with a sexual partner.

It also found 95 per cent of heterosexual men said they usually or always orgasmed during sexually intimate moments while just 65 per cent of heterosexual women did.

But the figure was 86 per cent for lesbian women, 89 per cent for gay men, 88 per cent for bisexual men and 66 per cent for bisexual women.

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The study found 95 per cent of heterosexual men said they usually or always orgasmed during sexually intimate moments while just 65 per cent of heterosexual women didCredit: Alamy

Around 80 per cent of straight women and 91 per cent of lesbian ladies said they always or usually managed to reach peak pleasure with the “golden trio”- but without having actual sexual intercourse.

Dr David Frederick, lead author of the research from Chapman University, told the Guardian: "The orgasm gaps between men and heterosexual women were well known prior to this study."

“The gaps between lesbian women and heterosexual women, however, were more speculative or based on small samples of lesbian women. This study highlights much more precisely that there are multiple orgasm gaps.”

Professor Elisabeth Lloyd, one of the authors of the study, said: “About 30 per cent of men actually think that intercourse is the best way for women to have orgasm, and that is sort of a tragic figure because it couldn’t be more incorrect.

“To say that there needs to be some education I think is an understatement.”

The research found very little seems to change the chance that a man will orgasm during sex however things like playing music, changing positions or declaring your love could make it 20 per cent more likely for a female partner to reach the finish line.

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The research found very little seems to change the chance that a man will orgasm during sexCredit: Getty Images

Brazilian lawyer ditched her high-flying career to become a PROSTITUTE

THIS stunning Brazilian lawyer has revealed she earning more cash than ever as a PROSTITUTE after ditching her high-flying career.

High-class escort Claudia De Marchi quit the "male dominated" legal profession and now gets paid massive sums for sex.

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Claudia de Marchi ditched her successful career in the legal world and now claims to be earning big bucks as a luxury escortCredit: Sourced

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Claudia has rejected suggestions that she is a prostitute and said that she only sleeps with intelligent and wealthy men who want to satisfy herCredit: Sourced

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She charges clients up to £650 a night and rakes in more cash than from her previous roles as a constitutional lawyer and uni professorCredit: Sourced

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In her previous working life, Claudia spent 11 years as a lawyer in her hometown specialising in constitutional lawCredit: Sourced

The 34-year-old moved to the capital Brasilia and charges rich businessman and politicians around £150 per hour.

And the Samba beauty, who graphically details her sexual encounters on a daily blog, is enjoying every minute.

" I love sex, I would not be in this profession if I did not," she writes in her blog, which gets more than 8,000 daily hits.

"So I set up a way to make money with what I like.

"And what's best in a relationship, in my point of view, is sex and good conversation."

Claudia graduated in law in 2005 and worked as a constitutional lawyer for 11 years in Passo Fundo.

She later became a university lecturer in Sorriso before being dismissed.

Fed up with the legal profession and the "man's world", Claudia embarked on a dramatic change.

"From the beginning, I found that the legal world is very macho, with men relying on their daddies to help them up the ladder," Claudia said.

Surprisingly her mother suggested and backed her move into the sex industry, describing it as a "sensible decision".

Claudia admits she loves that now she can "orgasm, get paid and that's all" without dealing with "lazy men attempting to conquer women".

Out of every 10 clients, Claudia told Brazilian website RDNews.com that "nine are good in bed", and she once ditched two "selfish" customers.

She added: "Money is attractive, but having pleasure is my priority. A feminist like me would never have sex just to please."

With daily and repeat clients, she earned nearly £100,000 in one year - much more than her lawyer's salary.

The busty babe, who describes herself as "multi-orgasmic", insists she does "not feel ashamed", and denies her role makes her a prostitute.

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Every day Claudia who admits to "loving sex" provides a no-hold barred account of her encounters with clients on a blogCredit: Sourced

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It emerged her mother was extremely supportive of her decision to become an escort describing it as "very sensible"Credit: Sourced

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Since turning her back on the legal profession, the busty beauty has hit out at the 'macho' world which she claims dominated her professionCredit: Sourced

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Up until last year, Claudia was in a respected role as a university professor until her life changed dramaticallyCredit: Sourced

Claudia, who charges £650 for a night, said: "A prostitute will do everything for money.

"Not me. I only have sex with educated men. I try to forget about the money. My encounter isn't that mechanical thing, it's very affectionate.

She also wrote: "I believe that feminism is a liberation, not an obligation.

"It is being able to do, exclusively, what you desire.

"That's what I did, I made a decision thinking in my pleasure and in my sustenance."

The staunch leftist however refuses to meet people of a different political persuasion.

"Extreme right-wing impeachment makes me sick," she wrote in one post.