The Unexpected Motorized Sex Toy That Makes Women Squirt

I know, because I've tried.
After all these years of trying, I was amazed to finally find myself having a G-spot orgasm and squirting in less than one minute using a sex toy with a very naughty name. But let's start at the beginning...
When Did I Find My G-Spot?
I have very stubborn nether regions. It’s not unusual for me to go 45 minutes to an hour before I orgasm. And this is while I’m masturbating by myself. My vagina is, in fact, so stubborn that I rarely orgasm for other people. And if I am lucky enough to have one it’s almost always from clitoral stimulation, not from my g-spot.
The G-spot, or Gräfenberg Spot, is commonly described as a ridged, rough, walnut or peach pit textured lump 1 to 3 inches into the anterior wall of the vagina.
It feels different on different women but most consistently I describe it as a knot or mass of dense tissue. It’s a hard lump that is more ridged and rigid on some women than others. If manually stimulating a woman who is lying on her back in front of you, you would enter your first and middle fingers into the vagina and firmly press up and down on that spot with a quick, rhythmic motion. 

Sometimes it’s described as making a “come hither” motion with your two fingers, however, I like to think of it more as “up and down” motion. The object isn’t to stroke, but to press with firm pressure. A good rule of thumb is to press with a firmness that seems a bit more forceful than you think you should.
I’ve often found I don’t have enough strength in my hand to press as hard as it takes to make many women orgasm via their G-spot. I admire the women and men who do, and am convinced they must keep to a strict regimen of upper body workouts. It can be A LOT of work!
Since I have spaghetti arms, I tend to rely on toys to help me out.
I had my first G-spot orgasm about 3 or 4 years ago.
That may sound strange coming from a woman who's nearly 40, has had multiple long term partners, loves to masturbate, and has a healthy, explorative view of sex, but not really. Many women tell me it also wasn’t until they were quite a bit into their adult life they found and learned how to manipulate their G-spots.
It takes quite some time and a lot of practice for women to master the inner-workings of their innermost parts. I can’t tell you the number of women I encounter who thought they knew themselves, had fulfilling sex in their 20s, only to hit their mid 30s and be blown away with all of the new things their bodies started to do and feel. I’m unsure whether these new discoveries are due to time and practice, due to something physically based that hits when women reach their “sexual peak” or for other reasons. I’m sure it’s different for all women. 

All I know is, it happens.
The Great G-Spot Debate
A January 2010 British study concluded G-spot didn’t really exist, stating it is instead a matter of the woman’s subjective opinion.
That’s nice way of saying, “You silly women are imagining it.”
Critics have now sited flaws in this and other similar studies, mainly because the data collected relied solely on self-reporting related to heterosexual penis-in-vagina intercourse. G-spot stimulation is much more likely to occur with the aid of toys or through non-intercourse sexual activity, such as manual manipulation.
Only 35% of the female population has ever experienced orgasm through intercourse — that includes clitoral and G-spot orgasm. I wonder if the other 65% were the women who took part in this survey? Sigh.
Unfortunately, this and many other similarly flawed surveys and studies made their way into human sexuality and medical textbooks, and so student doctors and therapists today are taught in universities that the G-spot and female ejaculation may not exist.
It is suspected if survey samples included more sex-positive, extroverted women, the conclusion may have been very different. Furthermore, it's possible the studies weren’t structured properly because the researchers themselves didn't understand enough about the G-spot to appropriately go about examining the issue.
I speak to a lot of women on my Weird Chicago Sex Tours and other classes I teach about their experiences with the G-spot and squirting. Time and time again I find women who either don’t know how to properly manipulate their g-spots or often, the ones who did find the spot were absolutely mortified. They thought they had urinated when female ejaculation occurred. Some had even been ridiculed by partners because they assumed the women lost control of their bladders during sex. These women vowed to never let it happen again, so when they experience the sensation of having to pee during sex (which is also the same feeling that occurs just before female ejaculation) they stop what they are doing or change position until the sensation subsides.
For many women, mistakenly trying to control what they believe is the feeling of urination actually causes the suppression of their orgasms.
What A Sex Toy Taught Me about Female Ejaculation (aka Squirting)
When I got a toy (called a my F*cksaw) this past Christmas, after witnessing what it did for me and for other women, I was determined to put it to the test. I was curious if I could, with any regularity, induce female ejaculation in various, randomly chosen women. What I discovered astounded me.
After using the toy two dozen times on two dozen different women, it produced not only G-spot orgasms —but squirting ejaculations every single time!
I couldn’t believe it. I had actually given a good number of these women their first g-spot orgasms. I also observed something unexpected about the ejaculate of the women, along with quite a few witnesses (Hey, I roll that way), which debunked what I had learned from numerous academic sources.
There is a lot of controversy surrounding female ejaculate — if it does exist, what is it? Is it urine?
A good number of mainstream sources lean toward the urine theory, even though evidence suggests ejaculate is expelled from the Skene’s glands located just beside and below the urethral opening on the anterior wall of the vagina. Ejaculate may contain trace amounts of urea (explaining the faint urine smell it sometimes has), but mainly consists of a lubricating liquid produced when the G-spot receives steady, strong, rhythmic pressure.
The liquid produced from each of the women I used the toy on were of various shades and consistencies, ranging from thin and watery to a thick, solid white, milk-like texture and everywhere in between.
Although I know, in my rational mind, female ejaculate isn’t urine, I’d still sometimes become paranoid when having intercourse that I was wrong. After sex I’d secretly sniff the towel that had been under me or closely examine the liquid when my partner wasn’t looking “just to make sure.” Even as a sex educator who knew better, there was still that little, internal part of me who would certainly shrivel up and die if I had accidentally peed while having sex.
The results produced with this sex toy couldn’t be denied. The female ejaculate produced from a wide variety of subjects was clearly not urine.
I have since stopped closely inspecting my towels.
Making the World a Better Place One G-Spot Orgasm at a Time
I’m a pleasure advocate and very much enjoy helping women have better orgasms.
Not too long after I had received the sex toy, a friend and her husband came to me with questions about female ejaculation. She had gotten to the point of feeling like she was going to pee during G-spot stimulation, but always asked her husband to stop each time because she was fearful she was about to urinate.
They had tried everything they could and even after getting a few pointers from me, still couldn’t make g-spot orgasm/squirting happen. This young lady had no problem achieving clitoral orgasm but had never before experienced any other type of orgasm.
Because we are all part of the kink community and in somewhat open relationships, it wasn’t out of the norm for me to get together with this couple to see if I could help. I started out manually manipulating the woman, employing the assistance of vibrators to give her a clitoral orgasm. I find G-spot orgasm much easier to achieve after a woman has been warmed up clitorally.
When she was ready, I used a curved dildo with a large bulb on one end to stimulate her G-spot. This type of shape is excellent for female ejaculation and one I usually recommend for beginning squirters.
Suddenly, she said she felt as if she was about to urinate. I told her that was the sensation she wanted and to relax her pelvic floor muscles and go with it — she was almost there! I had even lined the bed ahead of time with absorbent pads and plastic sheeting to allow her to become more comfortable with the feeling of letting go.
Manual stimulation of the G-spot with a dildo takes some time, and as the pressure kept building she became more and more certain she was about to urinate. That’s when she asked me to stop. The sensation of having to pee was causing her to unknowingly suppress her G-spot orgasm.