How long does sex normally last? Five minutes? Fifteen? Or how about an hour? The results vary, depending on who you ask. That said, there is more or less an average, according to Reddit. Below, men and women reveal the average amount of time sex lasts for them.
How do you measure up in comparison to these Reddit confessions? Sound off in the comments section below!
Anonymous. "I really don't even like the actual penetration part to last any more than say... five minutes to be honest. I prefer to spend a lot more time kissing, touching each other and doing oral until we can't stand it anymore and we just have to f*ck. And by that time we're so excited it's just not going to go on for very long.
I ALWAYS include foreplay in my sex time, so when I say sex is usually 30 minutes for me but optimally an hour, I'm starting that time at the moment my boyfriend kisses me on the neck.”
I ALWAYS include foreplay in my sex time, so when I say sex is usually 30 minutes for me but optimally an hour, I'm starting that time at the moment my boyfriend kisses me on the neck.”
User “fapfapfap.” "There are studies that say that if you last too long, your partner might start to feel unsexy because she can't get you off, the same study say 6 to 10 minutes for a woman.
for me it completely depends on the mood, on how fast she'll orgasm, if it feels like a multi-orgasm day or we're only really going to get just one (or none on the rare occasion), on how much we want to play, if it's more loving of more physical, etc....
6 to 10 minutes when high tension, she's sensitive and orgasm fast etc... 15 to 20 minutes is more typical, 30 minutes it's either a lazy day where we really take our time or super horny and we won't have time for seconds. tbh, more than 30 minutes is when i get softish and need to get re-started, pain will typically be involved afterwars (from friction).”
for me it completely depends on the mood, on how fast she'll orgasm, if it feels like a multi-orgasm day or we're only really going to get just one (or none on the rare occasion), on how much we want to play, if it's more loving of more physical, etc....
6 to 10 minutes when high tension, she's sensitive and orgasm fast etc... 15 to 20 minutes is more typical, 30 minutes it's either a lazy day where we really take our time or super horny and we won't have time for seconds. tbh, more than 30 minutes is when i get softish and need to get re-started, pain will typically be involved afterwars (from friction).”
User “paultripp.” "My gf and I go anywhere from 10-20 min. I could go longer, but honestly she gets sore and doesnt want me to. If we have sex for 30+ min that usually means shes living in broke down coochie palace for a few days, and we would rather have sex more frequently and more intensely than forever. Most girls I know do want sex to last that long. If they do, they havent been with someone who can last. Once they do, they tend to opt for more of a medium timeframe.”
Anonymous. "Most guys I've slept with have lasted somewhere between 5-25 minutes, sometimes more. It depends on how much buildup there's been--if I've been giving a guy a BJ for a couple minute beforehand, for example, he's not going to last very long during sex. But if we jump each others' bones as soon as we see each other, it'll take a bit longer to warm up during sex itself.
The point is that there's no ‘right' amount of time sex should take--each session will have a natural endpoint. For most men, though, that endpoint will not be after six hours!"
The point is that there's no ‘right' amount of time sex should take--each session will have a natural endpoint. For most men, though, that endpoint will not be after six hours!"
User “shellshock3d.” "Hmmm, in total it's around 30-40 minutes though I've never really counted. Usually it's half foreplay and half PiV. We both enjoy foreplay a lot so depending on how much time we have, it can go longer.”
User “vampire1337.” "So I can easily last an hour, two if I stretch out out with some mid sex foreplay... (that's just what I'm calling it at 4am ftw) if I go back to my old habits of edging, and sorta f*ck my girl in that manner, I can basically shut off the orgasm switch and just give it forever. I'll eventually get off this way if I'm sober as a bird. If I'm on a particular opiate, I can't lose my erection, and I can't c*m. An ex girlfriend said she took it for four hours one night.”
User “Centias.” "About an hour of pretty solid pounding. We consider our 30 min rounds to basically be quickies when compared to some typical 1-2 hour romps.
My case may be from a few years of daily deathgrip, but usually I don't get tons of sensation from it as good, as it is, and it takes a lot to make me c*m. There's usually a few position changes when each of us gets tired, and sometimes some changing from vaginal to anal. BJs and HJs don't do a lot for me usually, so I'm glad she takes it so well. And then there's always the pegging and a** play…”
My case may be from a few years of daily deathgrip, but usually I don't get tons of sensation from it as good, as it is, and it takes a lot to make me c*m. There's usually a few position changes when each of us gets tired, and sometimes some changing from vaginal to anal. BJs and HJs don't do a lot for me usually, so I'm glad she takes it so well. And then there's always the pegging and a** play…”
User “twalsh341.” "sometimes really fast, total start kissing to begin cleanup of 5 minutes. What I really enjoy though is the kind of start kissing like high school and gradually escalate/remove clothes, foreplay, have sex almost until I orgasm, pause for oral, keep going and finish, start making out, have sex again. I've had that scenario last 4 or 5 hours before.
Sometimes it's really hard for me to get off and can take 30-40 minutes of intercourse to get there. I'd guess average is around 20 minutes without a long foreplay session.”
Sometimes it's really hard for me to get off and can take 30-40 minutes of intercourse to get there. I'd guess average is around 20 minutes without a long foreplay session.”
User “quacksdontecho.” "An hour to 2 hours depending on how the night has gone. My gf will orgasm between 4-8 times and I'll c*m once, sometimes twice if it's really hot and heavy. I've also been able to finish in 30 minutes and a partner came an average of 3 times."
User "JestersHacksaw.” "Yeah, for my girlfriend and I we usually have a decent amount of foreplay and then we can go from about 5 minutes to like an hour and a half or more. 20mins or so is about our average. By the hour mark or so I usually try to finish because she gets really sensitive. However, we have gone at it about 8 times in a row over the course of 4-5 hours.”
Anonymous. "Funny thing for me when I lost my virginity I latest for about an hour and a half. So I'd have 2 sessions of about 1.5 hours a night. With my current gf she's a lot tighter so I don't last as long adding to the fact that we do it when her parents/ sister isn't home so we have to be quick about it (which I don't really enjoy bit sex is sex) and I usually last 10-45 minutes. So I guess it depends on the person.”
Anonymous. "On average, I would say between 20-30 minutes. However, in the past, there have been periods of up to an hour. It all depends on the mood, the timing, and whether or not I'm in a hurry, haha.”
User “becauseofquantum.” "I went at it for about 5 hours last night, but that was with a lot of breaks. Some people might go on pounding for 6 hours, but I don't see how that has to be any better for either him or her. I know that I get tired (and bored) after a while, and I've been with several women that preferred their sessions short. And by short i mean <10 minutes.”
User “unyielding-.” "On average, my boyfriend and I last anywhere from 2 to 4 hours. PIV alone can range up to 2 to 3 of those hours depending on how long we've been at it. It's not straight foreplay, then PIV for the rest though. We take breaks and hold each other a bit, then have at each other again. It's absolutely blissful.”
User “mkgray0013.” "I've had a six hour session before with my wife. It wasn't continuous we took small brakes food, water, bathroom etc. Which just meant we were f*cking all over the house. But that isn't normal and usually leaves both of us sore the next few days. And is fun but it generally only happens because after my third load I'm out of ammo and can't *um anymore but the erection won't go away. But on average we only last 15 to 30 mins."
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