I Lost My Virginity Via Anal Sex and This Is What Happened

It’s safe to say that most people remember their "first time." Losing one's virginity is usually an important and memorable milestone. In this case, however, a woman explains how losing her virginity wasn't how most imagine it to be. While a majority of women lose their vaginal through traditional sex first, this woman lost her virginity through anal sex.

Virginity. An anonymous woman writes via Your Tango about her experience losing her virginity— anally. While most people won’t even consider talking about anal sex, much less doing it, this woman explains that she decided to dive into the experience right away.

Research. She admits that when she lost her virginity through anal sex, she questioned whether or not it was normal. She couldn’t help but to sit down and start doing a little bit of research.

Penetration. ”After the initial penetration, I cried. No, not because it hurt, but because I had just lost my virginity to my (now ex) boyfriend." “It was special. Weird … but special. The following day, Google was my savior, as via that blessed search engine I was able to confirm that my experience appeared to be a pretty normal one,” writes the woman, via Your Tango.

Common. What she was most shocked to learn wasn’t that her experience was normal and actually quite common. She was more surprised that it happened to a lot of religious women who believed they remained virgins until marriage by avoiding vaginal sex.

Absitnence. ”However, it also appeared that Jesus Christ is actually most women’s savior — because, apparently, many Christian women who belong to abstinence programs in order to save their vaginal virginity for marriage somehow manage to beat around the bush by losing their anal virginity instead. And the same goes for many other horny religious youths,” writes the woman.

Details. The woman goes on to explain how it all went down, being sure to include even the most private details. It happened with an ex. Since they’d been together for so long, they had a “sex bucket list” they wanted to get through, which included everything but losing her virginity.

Ready. ”After a night out on the town and a few alcoholic beverages down my throat, I was ready to tick another box from the sexual bucket list. And so I did … and then another. And after an incredible amount of lubrication, we decided to go for it.,” the woman explains.

No pain. Unlike most people who try anal for the first time (or any type of sex for that matter), she vows she didn’t feel any pain.

Confused. ”The next morning, I woke up dazed and confused, wondering where the hell my anal virginity had gone. It turned into a bit of a joke over the next couple of days, as I told my friends I had finally lost my virginity, but that they had to guess which hole had been penetrated,” she writes.

Losing it. It wasn’t long after losing her anal virginity that she went on to lose her vaginal virginity. Surprisingly, she states it hurt more than anal sex.

Preparing. While anal isn’t for everyone, if you are curious about trying it out for yourself, you might want to make sure you’re 100 percent ready. If you go into it without preparation, you could find yourself in a lot of pain, or in a very awkward situation.

Lube. Unlike your vagina, your anus isn’t supposed to stretch. So, when something like a penis or sex toy goes in it, pain is expected. With the help of your trusty bottle of lube, however, things could be more comfortable, even enjoyable!

Clean. Another thing you might want to do beforehand is make sure you’re clean... down there. Not only is it going to make the experience that much better for the both of you, but cleanliness will also help prevent infections.

Go slow! Lastly, don’t rush into things. Take your time and be sure you’re comfortable before consenting. Use as much lube as possible in order to avoid tearing.

You. Would you ever consider having anal sex if you haven’t already tried it? What do you think of this woman’s story? Be sure to let us know what you think!