BJs Vs. Cunnilingus: Which Is More Enjoyable, According To Bisexuals

When you're straight (unless you got really experimental in college), chances are you've only either blown a guy or eaten a girl out.  But for bisexuals, it's a little different.  You've likely tried your hands at both.  Now, seeing as you've tried your hands at both, you have the gift of being able to rate the two.  If you've only ever tried one form of oral, however, but you're curious to know which one is better than the other, then keep reading to find out what bisexuals consider to be the best.

Personal pleasures. Sexual pleasure is subjective. Though going down on a guy may be the bee’s knees for some people, others might absolutely hate it. The same can be said for going down on a girl. It just all depends on preferences. But for bisexual people, things work a bit differently.

The benefits of bisexuality. The best part about being bisexual is that you essentially get the best of both worlds. It’s pretty spectacular. When it comes to performing oral, especially, a bisexual person has the benefit of picking favorites, which is something most people don’t really have as options.

Picking favorites. So, when it comes to BJs or cunnilingus, which is better? Right off the bat, it’s difficult to just decide without much context. So let’s get right to the source. Let’s hear from bisexual men and women have have enough experience to know for sure which exactly is the better form of oral of the two.

Something to hold onto. “What bugs me out is that anytime I’ve told someone I prefer giving a guy head over giving a girl head, they think I’m just gay and confused. But that’s not the case at all. I’m bi. Trust me. I love the ladies. I just happen to also love having a d*ck in my mouth. So what? But yeah, when it comes to picking a favorite, it’s sucking a D for sure. Just more to work with. You get something to hold onto.” —Jacob, 25

Cunniling-us. “I’ve got a soft spot for going down on women because the first ‘gay’ experience I’ve ever had was with a room full of a girls. There were about 7 of us, and we were all naked and everyone was just going down on everyone in like a head train. So when I’m giving someone head, I just tend to prefer girls just for that reason. Just brings back good memories.” —Anna, 24

Exterior. “I think I have to say I prefer bl*wjobs because I just prefer a d*ck to a pu**y. I think it’s because of the fact it’s like an exterior thing. I goes out, whereas the vagina goes in. I dunno Just a preference thing, I guess. And maybe because I’ve already got one, it’s not as exciting eating a pu**y as it is giving a guy head.” —Jen, 27

Penis, please. “If I could have a d*ck in my mouth around the clock, I would. I just love the idea of sucking on one. The shape. The smell. The texture. It’s just incredibly pleasant overall. With girls, I’m not really into eating out. I’m attracted to them. Have dated them. Love the sex overall. But eating out, eh. Not my thing.” —Chelsea, 26

Ladies. “Hm. Ok. So first of all, I don’t consider myself like 50% guys and 50% women. But I don’t even know what I’d be more into anyway. It’s confusing. It’s tough to say. I like both. But if you put a gun to my head and I had to pick, I would pick the ladies just cuz I like having my face buried in something, working my tongue. Which is why I like rimming just as much too.” —Michael, 29

No choice. “I dunno, I don’t really ever think about which one I like the best. It just depends on the situation I’m in. I’ve dated women before. I’ve dated guys before. So when I’m in the relationship, it’s not like I’m craving the other sex. Ya know? But because my initials are literally BJ (if you don’t count my middle name), I’ll go for team BJ.” —Bryan, 22

The combo package. “Why are we picking favorites? Can’t someone use their time instead trying to figure out a way to back joint head easier? Like, if I could eat a girl out while blowing a guy, you’ll make my day. But until then, these kinds of questions are pointless. Who f*cking cares?” —Emma, 23

Sgt. Johnson. “If I had to pick… Ok, so I would definitely pick blowing a guy over eating a girl out, but oddly enough, I’m dating a girl right now. But I doubt she’d care if I said that seeing as we regularly hook up with guys on the reg. So yeah. Bl*w jobs get two votes because I already know she would go along with me.” —Janice, 20

Pros and cons. “It’s hard to pick a favorite because they’ve both got positives and negatives. For going down on a guy, I enjoy the act itself, but when he c*ms? No. I don’t enjoy that. For eating a girl out though, I like it, but only when she’s not completely shaved. I just feel like it’s weird touching someone’s genitals when there’s no hair there. It’s not natural.” —Carrie, 35

Licking over sucking. “I have to go with cunnilingus. It’s just a more relaxing, fun activity. With guys, your jaw cramps up. Your neck starts to hurt. You have to get in weird positions. I give a mean BJ, but I definitely go with cunnilingus.” —Paul, 28

Giving head. “Is it super weird that I’m not even into giving head at all? Like I know that I may as well be branded a freak, but whatever. I love sex on its own. But the idea of having someone’s crotch in my face and my mouth just doesn’t always do it for me. I’ll do it as a means to an end, but I’m indifferent.” —Chris, 25

Do we really need a winner? At the end of the day, head is head. Now, if you haven’t already had your go at trying both styles out for yourself, you’ve hopefully got a better idea of how it all works. In the meantime, just enjoy what you enjoy. There aren’t any rules to your interests. Just have fun, people.