Typically diagnosed at birth, a micropenis is a "package" that is 2.8 inches or less when erect, or 2.5 inches when “stretched” while flaccid, according to UK Express. In laymen’s terms, it’s an abnormally small member. If you don't have one or have never been with someone who has one, it's only natural to be curious about what intimacy is like under these conditions. Now, men and women have turned to Reddit to share their sexual experiences regarding the matter and… Well, read what they had to say for yourself down below.
Anonymous. "I do. I don't have a love life... That's how it affects it. I guess I just resigned myself when I learned it would never get bigger. So, now I just ‘pretend’ I'm asexual and worry about other things. I actually got into spirituality/Taoism/Buddhism and now I'm thinking about chaste living and such. There are other things to do besides sex.
I should mention, though, that I still masturbate to porn. So, I'm not asexual, no matter how I present myself in life."
I should mention, though, that I still masturbate to porn. So, I'm not asexual, no matter how I present myself in life."
User “amyinites.” "I can't do certain positions such as spooning as I simply can't reach from certain angles. Also, my partner needs fairly deep penetration to orgasm from PIV. She's OK with that though because even with her previous partner who was very large, it didn't happen too often. I've always had confidence issue about my small penis, so for example I've never had a one-night stand.
Overall though my sex life is good, and I have not had any real negative reaction to my penis size from either males or females."
Overall though my sex life is good, and I have not had any real negative reaction to my penis size from either males or females."
Anonymous. "Can't do the spooning position, other than that no problems. I'm happy with the size of my penis (as are my partners). My penis size may have contributed to my minor cuckolding fetish, although this is not a large part of my sexuality and I'm not really into the SPH thing anyway."
Anonymous. "I dated a guy for a few years that couldn't have hit more than 3.5 inches. I'm pretty easygoing, but I'm lucky I know how to get myself off. It wasn't too much of a problem, but to say I was satisfied would be a huge stretch. That was because of the partner I think, though. I imagine if they spent time trying to make me feel attractive or explore my needs/fetishes I would remember things differently.
My current partner listens to what I say I enjoy very well and happens to share a lot of the same kinks I do. He is also super respectful when it comes to trying new things. I enjoy that a lot."
My current partner listens to what I say I enjoy very well and happens to share a lot of the same kinks I do. He is also super respectful when it comes to trying new things. I enjoy that a lot."
User “BelleHades.” "Does it still count as a micro-penis if it's a grower? Mine looks micro, at just over a single inch when flaccid, but 4 inches is all I can muster when I get erect. Regardless, It's affected me in the sense that I have zero confidence, total beta, completely unapproachable, and am a kissless loser at 30."
Anonymous. "Its a pain in the a*s. Also i am uncircumcised on top of it. So yea. If I aint erect you dont see it. I get about 3.5in when erect. Been married 10 years now though. So there is that."
User “Smallpenis4life.” "When I was younger it was socially crippling and resulted in a lot of friend-zoning because I would self-sabotage any potential relationship when things even potentially got to the stage of intimacy. It wasn't until I was close to 30 that I learned many things I wish I had known 15 years prior."
User “tencentsgetsyounuts.” "I dated an intersex guy. He was born with a micro penis, but they performed a few surgeries on him as a baby so it's not quite the same situation. They cut off half of his penis and then bent it in half to make a clit. It would still get hard and when he started to take testosterone it did get larger as well.
He wasn't afraid to use a dildo with me if I wanted. Most of the time we stuck to oral sex though. I loved sucking his d*ck and it did also help if I bobbed my head up and down like I was really going down on a huge d*ck. I'd also jerk him off at the same time as sucking him off. I loved sucking his d*ck and honestly I've had a harder time enjoying sucking a cisgender person's d*ck, not to sound like I'm trying to fetishize micro penises or something, just something I've noticed."
He wasn't afraid to use a dildo with me if I wanted. Most of the time we stuck to oral sex though. I loved sucking his d*ck and it did also help if I bobbed my head up and down like I was really going down on a huge d*ck. I'd also jerk him off at the same time as sucking him off. I loved sucking his d*ck and honestly I've had a harder time enjoying sucking a cisgender person's d*ck, not to sound like I'm trying to fetishize micro penises or something, just something I've noticed."
User “alarbus.” "Buddy of mine in the smaller department said it like this: Massive c*ck is like a steak. Some people are vegans and won't go near em. Some people only want that steak, and you just know their a*shole can not be happy about it.
Most people seem to like a healthy mix of things all for their own reasons. One provide a lot of things for their friends and lovers, and people more often than not are too happy with what is provided to worry about what isn't.
Not a direct answer, but food for, uh, thought."
Most people seem to like a healthy mix of things all for their own reasons. One provide a lot of things for their friends and lovers, and people more often than not are too happy with what is provided to worry about what isn't.
Not a direct answer, but food for, uh, thought."
User “Recycleaways.” "I bottom with guys so it's all good there. You have to avoid the size queens. Some guys really like it but gay sex dynamics are a whole other ballpark.
With women I've got oral down to where I like to give her half a dozen or more orgasms if she's game. I feel like I need to over compensate but I also love having my partner cum. Some women aren't multiorgasmic from clitoral stimulation so then it's a matter of seeing what else she's into-gspot, anal, fornix, cervix, urethra-whatever she likes simulated. You have to be creative with toys. And there's the romantic/psychological side of sex to attend to, which can make mediocre sex into great sex. There are strap on's if we want to penetrate (her or me, haha). If I had a regular size wang I would probably be ignorant about pleasing women.
Yeah, I do want a bigger d*ck but it's more for me than my sex life. I like my d*ck. We've made a lot of good memories together. For several reasons I'm going to get a surgery at some point."
With women I've got oral down to where I like to give her half a dozen or more orgasms if she's game. I feel like I need to over compensate but I also love having my partner cum. Some women aren't multiorgasmic from clitoral stimulation so then it's a matter of seeing what else she's into-gspot, anal, fornix, cervix, urethra-whatever she likes simulated. You have to be creative with toys. And there's the romantic/psychological side of sex to attend to, which can make mediocre sex into great sex. There are strap on's if we want to penetrate (her or me, haha). If I had a regular size wang I would probably be ignorant about pleasing women.
Yeah, I do want a bigger d*ck but it's more for me than my sex life. I like my d*ck. We've made a lot of good memories together. For several reasons I'm going to get a surgery at some point."
User “chuckduck253.” "I'm a gay dude who dated a guy who I'm almost positive had one. I've seen a good deal of d*cks in my life so it was kind of shocking to see one that was so...tiny. You know those rolls of change in a cash register? It was less than a change roll of dimes at full hardness.
I tried to pretend like it didn't bother me. Deepthroating was a cakewalk, but riding it or jerking it off was so lackluster. It's just not a lot to work with as far as volume and surface area go. He was a great guy and I really really liked him, but having little to no sensation from sex was really unfulfilling. Also he wasn't willing to bottom ever, so it left us with very few options. It ended up not working out. I felt terrible about it, but that's the reality of it."
I tried to pretend like it didn't bother me. Deepthroating was a cakewalk, but riding it or jerking it off was so lackluster. It's just not a lot to work with as far as volume and surface area go. He was a great guy and I really really liked him, but having little to no sensation from sex was really unfulfilling. Also he wasn't willing to bottom ever, so it left us with very few options. It ended up not working out. I felt terrible about it, but that's the reality of it."
User “holycowpinkmilk.” "I was hooking up with a guy once with a penis smaller than my thumb. I felt bad for him because we were sexting before hand and he kept asking if I was ready for his 'huge d*ck.' Other than that he was a mostly cool dude. It didnt work out, but he was sweet.”
User “WillowHartxxx.” "I've slept with two people who were about 2.5-3in erect. Not sure if that's micro. I really enjoyed both. I have a kind of short cervix and always worry about it hurting if it's bigger. Was kind of teasing with just that length. My SO has a huge penis and I'd rather it was much smaller."
User “Vivicurl.” "My ex had a micropenis, which was fine with me because PIV sex just doesn't do it at all for me. He had veeery talented fingers and endurance, best orgasms ever. Play to your strengths is the lesson he learned and mastered."
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