Anal Fingering Techniques That Are Guaranteed To Make Your Partner Orgasm

If you blush easily, this article might not be for you.  For the sexually adventurous lover, we've compiled a list of eight sizzling anal fingering techniques to give your partner one hell of an intense orgasm.  So, get ready to learn some new techniques that you will definitely want to make part of your bedroom repertoire.

Do your research. Take the time to learn a little bit about anal anatomy, including the anal canal, the sphincter muscles and the prostate (if you’re a dude.) You don’t necessarily have to spend a day at Barnes and Noble, but it’s always helpful to familiarize yourself with the situation before going in.

Wear a glove. Yeah, if you watch adult films, this isn’t something that they typically do. Nevertheless, it’s important. While it might not be the sexiest move in the world to snap on a glove, it’s important to stay safe and clean during anal play.

Fluid transmission. You want to protect yourself from fluid transmission, especially considering how common it is to have dry skin on your hands. Also, no matter how clean you are, there’s usually a good amount of fecal bacteria down there. So, save yourself some trouble down the line and throw on a glove.

Use lube. Anal tissue tears easily, and your butt doesn’t naturally product its own lube. Grab a bottle of lube and be generous with it. Otherwise, visualize a motor running without any oil in it. It’s just friction and it doesn’t feel good.

Take your time. It’s easy to get excited in the heat of passion, but you need to take anal play slow. You want to make sure your partner is comfortable, and the last thing you want to do is cause them any pain or discomfort.

Experiment on yourself. Anal masturbation is a great way to learn how to pleasure your partner. Try some gentle massaging and see how your body responds to your touch. If something hurts you or makes you uncomfortable, you obviously don’t want to do it with a partner.

Clean up carefully. No matter how careful you are, and even if you don’t see anything, if you touch the inside of the anus, there’s going to be bacteria on your fingers. Take the time to clean up thoroughly and for god’s sake, don’t rub your eyes.

Talk about it first. Make sure you talk about it beforehand. No one appreciates a sneak attack. When it comes to anal play, you need to communicate with your partner.

The see-saw. Coat your hands with a good amount of lube. Put your palms together, flat, like you’re praying. Now, place your hands on the outer edge between your partner’s cheeks, over the anus and perineum, and move up and down in a sawing motion. This will get your partner relaxed and turned on.

Modified see-saw. Using the see-saw technique, wiggle your hands back and forth at the wrist as you slide up and down this area. You might want to add some extra lube at this point, since you’re getting ready to go in.

Use your thumbs. Use the knuckles of each hand to spread your partner’s cheeks apart. Then, slowly move your thumbs in a circular motion so that they touch the anus as you form each circle. If your partner responds well, you can increase your speed.

Digital penetration. Pay attention to your partner’s cues to gauge their state of arousal. If you’re not sure, ask them directly. Use a well-lubricated finger and put gentle pressure on your partner’s anus. Don’t push, just apply pressure. Your partner can help you enter past the first sphincter based on his or her comfort level.

Breathe deep. Take it slow here and let your partner adjust to the sensation. Make sure your partner is breathing deeply and slowly. It is key that your partner stays relaxed.

Wait patiently. With your finger between the two anal sphincters, your partner has an opportunity to rest, relax, and get used to having your finger inside of him or her. Your partner is in charge right now, and he or she needs to coax your finger in.

Take a raincheck, if necessary. You have to stay still, apply gentle pressure and wait. If your partner doesn’t open up, it might be time to move on. You can’t rush anal fingering and it takes a lot of getting used to if you haven’t done it before.

Make small circles. Press along the outer edge of your partner’s rectum with your finger. Make small, gentle circles as you go. This will help you to learn your partner’s pleasure zones.

Gently bend your finger. Gently bend your finger against the wall of the rectum. This can be surprisingly pleasurable for your partner. It’s similar to hitting the female G-spot.

Involve the perineum. Gently massage the perineum as you finger your partner. This allows for a pleasant duality of stimulation. Pay attention to how he or she responds. Don’t be afraid to mix it up. And above all, enjoy yourself.