Women Open Up About How Many Of Their Sexual Partners Have Actually Made Them Orgasm

Easy. "For me personally I reach orgasm easily so even some of the s***tiest partners I've had still got me off. However, I'm probably more sensitive then the average woman,” says Reddit user ahatmadeofshoes12.

Just three. "I've been with upwards of 30 men, and only 3 have given me orgasms. What she's saying is absolutely believable. Of course as others have noted, sex can still be good without an orgasm,” says Reddit user HarleySpencer.

Just one. ”My SO is the only guy who's made me have a full blown orgasm. I've been with quite a few men and none of them took the time like he does. Now I'm extremely orgasmic. So it's very believable,” says Reddit user All-White-As-Snow.

b>Connection. "I was with 2 guys off and on in high school. No orgasms. I was with a guy for 6 years. Loved him. Amazing connection. No orgasms. I was with a guy for a year. Zero romantic feelings. Stayed because that dude made me cum from oral all the time. Thought he was a cunnilingus god. I was with a guy for 9 months. Maybe 2 orgasms and only if strictly directed, took forever, and he hated doing it. Currently 1.5 years into a relationship and it's the best orgasms I've ever had in my life,” says an anonymous Reddit user.

With help. "None without me helping. With help, maybe 2. What she's saying isnt that unlikely, its way less about how many people you've been with and more about your attitude. A lot of guys are pretty selfish about sex, if they do anything its before the sex starts, and very few will worry about making you cum after they already have,” says Reddit user marsmermaids.

Most. "Honestly? Most of them or they were quickly dumped. It sounds like plenty of women (and men!) put up with bad sex or don't bother communicating to their partners what they want or need in bed. They require oral to get off? They never ask for it for some reason. I don't know, it confuses me. Don't compromise on what you need in your relationships and you'll do well,” says Reddit user plantstand.

Once. "Honestly I've only had an orgasm once with a partner, that doesn't mean all of the sex I had with partners was bad.. It was good, sometimes great, sometime amazing just not orgasm inducing exceptional.. If she is telling you you're the best she's had especially 2 years in, she's definitely telling the truth,” says Reddit user tommileeg.

Long term. "All of my long term partners (year or longer, four guys in total) did. I have had about 15 casual partners - FWB or one night stand. Only three of those actually made me cum, though most of them tried really hard. It's not their fault, I'm not exactly the easiest because I really need to be comfortable and to focus. I think only one really didn't try, and one was just too drunk to do much of anything. So was I so it didn't matter,” says Reddit user _JeanGenie_.

Mental. "I think for me a lot of my not orgasming was mental, because once I had a partner that could make me cum consistently I never had problems again (if the guy was good). Probably 6/9 partners have made me orgasm, 4 of those partners would consistently make me cum. Not surprisingly, they are the later 4,” says Reddit user throwforsex.

Just oral. "Most of my orgasms with male partners were from oral sex. I haven't had very many partners with whom I never orgasmed at all. So, the vast majority of them. But not often from PIV - that's more complicated and difficult to orchestrate for me personally,” says Reddit user _ism_.

Not mature. "Only my SO and one other guy. But some of the other male partners I've had were really good - I just wasn't mature enough to know what I wanted or to tell them what I wanted,” says Reddit user frog_in_the_well.

Every time. "I've had two partners. My current one gets me off every time. My last one, I only got off if I helped. So, cowgirl, masturbation, etc. He tried, but not TOO hard. I think he was self conscious and took it hard, so I'd just do it for me,” says Reddit user sexytimesthrowaway8.

Still learning. "Other than my current partner, one other guy has made me orgasm, and it was only one time. My current partner was not able to make me orgasm for months after us being together, though too be fair I was his first at everything and so he didn't have previous techniques and I was still learning about what felt best with my own body. He can only truly make me cum through oral,” says Reddit user TheHoopFairy.

Good listener. "My SO has gotten me off more times in three months than my ex of two years was ever able to do. Why? Because he's willing to listen to me, he's patient, wants to see me happy and he's super into self improvement and learning how to do things better. It's possible you're just paying closer attention to her than the other guys,” says Reddit user letstalksexy.

Warmed up. "I was in 3 longetermish relationships. They all made me orgasm. 2 of them more than the other because he was selfish... Did not put in time effort to get me off (almost never orgasm from PIV)... So it is influenced by what the guy is like. But she could absolutely be telling the truth. Girls need some time to get warmed up.. Some guys just dont take the time!” says Reddit user kalikoh.