Things To Play With That Aren’t His Penis That Will Turn Him On

A man and his penis aren't easy to separate.  Where he goes, it follows.  Though, in all honesty, where it goes,  follows.  Especially when it comes to having sex, trying to keep his penis out of the picture is going to be pretty much impossible.  But getting him in the mood without involving his penis is totally doable, as long as you know what you're doing.  There are parts on his body that can get him going more than you probably ever even considered, and if you work his body in just the right way, you'll find that it can get him just as turned as if you were working his pant snake.  So if you're looking to change things up a bit, keep reading to find the things to play with that aren't his penis that will turn him on.

His butthole. If you're willing to brave your way into his butt, a single finger can do wonders that he probably never even knew were possible. When you apply some pressure onto his prostate, you'll bring him to place of such pure elation that he'll never want to go back.

His balls. Even though they're really part of the same package, a man's balls are by no means his penis. Obviously. However, they are just as sensitive — if not more sensitive, depending on the guy. So pay them some close attention; just don't apply too much pressure.

His nipples. If you're skilled at working nipples, you'll be able to get him feeling sensations he probably never even considered exploring. So, whether you want to use your tongue or your fingers, you can explore all the nerve endings he's got hiding away on his two otherwise pointless areas of his body.

His butt. If one of you (or both of you) just don't feel ready to explore the inner workings of his bum, the outside is just as sensitive. The butt is naturally just a super sensitive place, so if that means giving it a comfortable rubdown, then go for it. It'll keep him begging for more.

His ego. If you want to get a guy wrapped around your finger, make him feel like the greatest person alive. Stroke that ego and tell him how much you want it. The buildup can be even sexier than the sex itself (if it ever comes to that), depending on your skill level of persuasion.

His stomach. One reason why this will work is because it'll show how much you appreciate his abs and all the work he's put into them. On the other hand, his stomach is just a reach away from his d*ck, which is just going to keep his mind going into dirty territory.

His feet. Have you ever gotten a foot rub? If you have, you'll have no trouble understanding why this spot will turn him on. The tingling nerve endings will have him moaning like you wouldn't believe. It doesn't matter that it won't make him orgasm. All that matters is putting the idea in his head.

Yourself. The second you start playing with yourself is the second he will lose all control of himself. Every guys wants to watch someone he's attracted to get inappropriate in front of them. It feels wrong because he's not involved, and that's what makes it so hot.

His messaging app. Though you're not actually touching his body, when you surprise him with some sexy text messages that tell him how badly you want his body, he's going to lose it. This is the best tool for long-distance teasing, and the sky's the limit with what you can say to get his body craving more and more.

His ears. As long as he's cleaned up a bit, lick inside his ears and see how he reacts. Chances are, unless he's incredibly ticklish, he's going to love it. The ear is far more sensitive than you might've known, and it's going to have him squirming in place while you make feel like he never imagined via something as unsexy as an ear.

His forearm. You're not going after this part of his body just because it kind of, sort of reminds you of a giant penis; you're focusing on it because it can actually turn him on. According to the author of "Men In Bed," Barbara Keesling, PhD, via Cosmopolitan, his forearms are super sensitive and would love some rubbing.

His inner thighs. Whether you squeeze his thighs or graze your fingers around them gently, you're going to get a reaction from him. This area is incredibly sensitive, and doesn't hurt that it's dangerously close to his crotch, which is exactly the place he's going to want to focus on next.

His lips. The mouth is as much a part of sex as his genitals are, so don't avoid it. Grazing your fingers over his lips and then kissing them is going to pull him into your sexual spell, and he won't be able to pull away. Even a few nibbles won't hurt if you know how to work your own mouth without hurting him.

You. Sound off in the comments. What are the secret places that send shivers up your man's spine! Sure the penis is great, but there's a whole body to explore.